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please help, I wanna find this manhwa!
i remember it vaguely, however I didn’t read it long ago. maybe in October? Anyways, i remember it being about this one guy who was going to this house (I don’t remember why) but he wanted to get in, and the guy inside the house who was very emotional didn’t let him in so he left. the next day, the guy who wanted to get in came back and got kidnapped, but he was treated well, he was fed, he had a room but he was chained there. I remember one scene his toilet exploded. the guy who kidnapped him was very emotional. this wasn’t a sad or dark one, it was actually kinda funny. I remember when the bottom (the guy who wanted to get in the house originally and got kidnapped) pretended to be a kid so he could play outside. I remember the last few chapters I read were about the bottom finally getting to go home but the top followed him and they would shower together and the top would always beg for s3x. that’s all i remember, please help me! I’ll try to answer questions.
i remember it vaguely, however I didn’t read it long ago. maybe in October? Anyways, i remember it being about this one guy who was going to this house (I don’t remember why) but he wanted to get in, and the guy inside the house who was very emotional didn’t let him in so he left. the next day, the guy who wanted to get in came back and got kidnapped, but he was treated well, he was fed, he had a room but he was chained there. I remember one scene his toilet exploded. the guy who kidnapped him was very emotional. this wasn’t a sad or dark one, it was actually kinda funny. I remember when the bottom (the guy who wanted to get in the house originally and got kidnapped) pretended to be a kid so he could play outside. I remember the last few chapters I read were about the bottom finally getting to go home but the top followed him and they would shower together and the top would always beg for s3x. that’s all i remember, please help me! I’ll try to answer questions.
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I remember reading something here about a girl (possibly reincarnated into a book) that gets gifted a slime monster from her evil??? knight??? brother and named it Slime. I think I remember the slime lowkey having a crush on her and wanted to become strong to protect her.. imcryign. I think I also remember her step mother and sister hated her and had her living in a small room and unfed
HOPEFULLY THATS ENOUGH TO GO OFF OF!! PLEASE HELP ME I CANF GET IT OUT OF MY HEAD Σ(っ°Д °;)っ
HOPEFULLY THATS ENOUGH TO GO OFF OF!! PLEASE HELP ME I CANF GET IT OUT OF MY HEAD Σ(っ°Д °;)っ
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What your afternoon/evening skincare routine?
I usually do the bare minimum but I'm open to trying new stuff too.
I usually do the bare minimum but I'm open to trying new stuff too.
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anybody know where I can read raws ? I used to have a website but I completely lost it ..
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i think as yaoi/bl is becoming more mainstream these days and "trending," certain arguments and accusations are getting rehashed. one being the fetishization and anti-fujoshi side of the debate.
you can check my account. i've made plenty criticism of and questioned the bl genre. however! women enjoying yaoi does NOT equate to men enjoying lesbian porn. men fetishizing lesbian relationships often reinforces a patriarchal system where the male gaze dominates and women's sexuality is performed for men. in contrast, women engaging with yaoi is typically an act of reclaiming the gaze itself. it's about exploring sexuality from a female perspective, free from the traditional role of being the objectified subject. one upholds an existing power structure, while the other subverts it to create a space for female desire.
additionally, consider the cultural, geographic, and historical context of these stories. these ideas aren't entirely my own (many ppl have probs made these points lol, and also i saw a tik tok recently of a woman explaining something similar) btw. but basically, queerness and queer people have been shunned as taboo and exist on the margins of society. therefore, it is natural that queer stories will also follow that pattern - both as reclaiming that social position and also because existing in the mainstream subconsciously feels abnormal. might i add that women being sexual creatures with desires and sex drives is also a taboo and shunned concept, especially in Asia. it makes sense, then, that media that explores these things will represent and resemble that "taboo" dynamic. yaoi/bl as a whole is also a shifting and developing genre that grows over time. the types of stories we see put out reflect that. AND id argue that straight stories honestly depict very similarly harmful topics and ideas and are arguably much more powerful in influencing social dynamics and culture than bl.
really rough argument. i could talk about all this for hours. but its been on my mind for a while, esp because the more people that actually get into yaoi/bl, naturally the more critical people will be without understanding the history and culture of it.
you can check my account. i've made plenty criticism of and questioned the bl genre. however! women enjoying yaoi does NOT equate to men enjoying lesbian porn. men fetishizing lesbian relationships often reinforces a patriarchal system where the male gaze dominates and women's sexuality is performed for men. in contrast, women engaging with yaoi is typically an act of reclaiming the gaze itself. it's about exploring sexuality from a female perspective, free from the traditional role of being the objectified subject. one upholds an existing power structure, while the other subverts it to create a space for female desire.
additionally, consider the cultural, geographic, and historical context of these stories. these ideas aren't entirely my own (many ppl have probs made these points lol, and also i saw a tik tok recently of a woman explaining something similar) btw. but basically, queerness and queer people have been shunned as taboo and exist on the margins of society. therefore, it is natural that queer stories will also follow that pattern - both as reclaiming that social position and also because existing in the mainstream subconsciously feels abnormal. might i add that women being sexual creatures with desires and sex drives is also a taboo and shunned concept, especially in Asia. it makes sense, then, that media that explores these things will represent and resemble that "taboo" dynamic. yaoi/bl as a whole is also a shifting and developing genre that grows over time. the types of stories we see put out reflect that. AND id argue that straight stories honestly depict very similarly harmful topics and ideas and are arguably much more powerful in influencing social dynamics and culture than bl.
really rough argument. i could talk about all this for hours. but its been on my mind for a while, esp because the more people that actually get into yaoi/bl, naturally the more critical people will be without understanding the history and culture of it.
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Why does cake verse exist? It's legit romanticized canabilism. It's just nasty.
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Does anybody here know how to tween and can help me? I want to tween my art but I have no idea how and tutorials aren’t helping.
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Does anyone have an artist who's art is so scrumptious you could eat it or you just love their works so much?
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So basically I'm taking Spanish for my uni course and I lowky have an F. Like big fat red F there's no way I'm getting outta that cause I missed a test (not like I would have passed it anyway), have pure reds from other graded work and the only thing that's green is my attendance. I've already decided I'm gonna redo the class next fall, so I gen don't see any point in going to the class. I'm just wasting my time. The fact is I'm not good with learning math much less a whole ass language so I knew I was doomed when I saw both math and Spanish on my outline. HOWEVER in math I acc have a C+ like guys if thats not my best score for math then idk what is. I'll probably focus on math so I can at least past the final exam but gen dont have any hope for Spanish. The terrible news is that my Spanish teacher is also my English teacher..
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guys i literally cant do anything by myself i never go out i dont know how to shop i hate my life how do i stop
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i like one tweet and suddenly my tl is full of fandom discourse. i need a tl cleanse
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If you could look like one character, who are you choosing?
I'll go first. Faye Valentine my mommyyy pleaseee I would kill to look like you
I'll go first. Faye Valentine my mommyyy pleaseee I would kill to look like you
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Saw a post about a trans man getting arrested because he went to a woman's restroom... Uhuh... Weird... Tf..????
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Saw this tiktok not too long ago.. some white girl was posting ab how she loves asian guys.. honestly, it couldve been js her type.. but the way she worded it really threw me off
i think they said like "I really want an asian" and "I want an asian soo bad"
err that was really strange for me
am i reading into it too much?
i think they said like "I really want an asian" and "I want an asian soo bad"
err that was really strange for me
am i reading into it too much?
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Wht do yall think ab that?
Ive seen a whole lotta people saying that having a best friend of opposite gender is a "red flag" bc guys n girls cannot be friends
so, if ure lesbian, like does ur gf have to cut off all her best friends because theyre girls? Same goes for gay guys.. like I only see straight ppl making a big deal out of this. And ppl saying their partners MUST cut off all friendships w their friends js cuz theyre girls or guys are lowkey giving me insecure middle school relationship vibess.. sorry
like, if my guy friend told me we couldnt talk anymore cuz of his gf, its fine w me and ill completely respect it and cut him off
but if my partner had a girl friend, i genuinely would not mind at all n i wouldnt cut off my guy friends js bc i got a boyfriend but Obviously, I'll have respectable boundaries between us like im not gonna be touchy, or flirty and be some weirdo yk
Idk, what do yall think
Ive seen a whole lotta people saying that having a best friend of opposite gender is a "red flag" bc guys n girls cannot be friends
so, if ure lesbian, like does ur gf have to cut off all her best friends because theyre girls? Same goes for gay guys.. like I only see straight ppl making a big deal out of this. And ppl saying their partners MUST cut off all friendships w their friends js cuz theyre girls or guys are lowkey giving me insecure middle school relationship vibess.. sorry
like, if my guy friend told me we couldnt talk anymore cuz of his gf, its fine w me and ill completely respect it and cut him off
but if my partner had a girl friend, i genuinely would not mind at all n i wouldnt cut off my guy friends js bc i got a boyfriend but Obviously, I'll have respectable boundaries between us like im not gonna be touchy, or flirty and be some weirdo yk
Idk, what do yall think
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For people that have been in an abusive relationship. What makes it harder to leave such relationship and what are the signs youre in abusive relationship?
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So my phone SE is frozen on a TikTok, however I can turn it on and off (you can still see the TikTok as it only goes dim when it’s off and bright when it’s on)
I’ve tried to force restart it, yet it doesn’t work. I also tried looking it up but none of the frozen phones fit a situation like mine.
I don’t have an IMac or a windows pc to plug it in and restart the phone manually, so that’s out of question
I’m deciding to just let it die out, but letting it die out take about a day or two. I’m just wondering if it would fix the problem.
I’ve tried to force restart it, yet it doesn’t work. I also tried looking it up but none of the frozen phones fit a situation like mine.
I don’t have an IMac or a windows pc to plug it in and restart the phone manually, so that’s out of question
I’m deciding to just let it die out, but letting it die out take about a day or two. I’m just wondering if it would fix the problem.
