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Soooooooooo, I know a lot of people will disagree with me, especially those which are the cause of the problem, but I think it could have a good effect in the long-run.
Following the recent events with ungrateful brats complaining and trashing uploaders/solo translators/scanlation groups, I think it would do a lot of good if they could go on a "strike" for a few days to a week. As annoying as it sounds, it would make people understand that they should be grateful to all the amazing persons that are taking time from their lives to upload and/or translate(and everything that goes with the process of translating a chapter, that is e.g. cleaning, typesetting...) and spend money on the raws/official translations for everyone to enjoy for FREE. They will, therefore, see that if it wasn't for those amazing people they are annoying with their stupid complaints or straight-out harassments, they would not be able to enjoy any of those great mangas/manhwas/webcomics they so much love.
Obviously, it might be annoying to all the other readers that have been nothing but respectful and patient, but it would only be temporary and it would most probably be a blessing in disguise.
Mind you that I am not saying that they SHOULD do that, just that I believe this might be a good solution. I myself as a reader and uploader, I would totally support that. It would be annoying, for sure, but if this is the price to pay for people to understand that uploaders, solo translators and scanlation groups DO NOT own them anything. They are not required to do any of this. They have no obligation whatsoever. Yet, they still do it out of pure kindness for every one of us to enjoy.
End of my unpopular opinion. Again, please do not trash me┗( T﹏T )┛
Ps: Thank you to all the amazing sweethearts that make it possible for us to enjoy all of those mangas/manhwas/webcomics! You're underappreciated gems! We love you (づ￣ ³￣)づ

I learned today my fuckbuddy cheated his girlfriend with me. If i knew it, i didn't do it with him. What should i do from now on?

Okay so I just broke up with my boyfriend because of nothing he did, the reason I did was because every time I looked at him I felt like he was way way way out of my league and I feel like he deserves someone better than me. He always sends me kind words of affection and it just makes me feel bad so I was wondering if this is something I should try and fix or just keep living like normal. I also don't like to speak up in public situations because I feel really nervous and I think it has some ties to this.

I'm planning to get a big ass dragon on my back, inside the dragon are illustration of my favorite mangaka

i want to know why people mistake yaoi as gay thing they don t Represent gay people i am straight female and i liked yaoi becouse it only anime boy romance i want to say that yaoi represent anime and no way in real life i hate when people say that yaoi or bl is gay thing i noticed that there a lot of toxic people ship everything in anime and ruined animes like attack on titan and My Hero Academia....and Black Butler is good anime but those crazy bitch say that it yaoi and ship between main mc i can t say anything about this anime without other people telling me that this anime is gay i tried making them understand that anime is not related to gay ship and many other animes .....etc and they say that yaoi is real life thing as they mix between anime and real life and again i only want to discuss this problem (●￣(ｴ)￣●)

OK, to be able to answer this question myself we must go back in time a little. When i was 5 i was molested by a guy so reading normal straight romance manga/anime reminds me of being molested. But when i read yaoi it doesn't reminds me of it and i'm able to feel that pleasure (not the horny lewd pleasure ⁄(⁄ ⁄·⁄ω⁄·⁄ ⁄)⁄ ) when reading romance mangas. I guess that's my reason(?)

I know most of the people use line or discord but here in Brazil whatsapp is very popular

Just to know some peeps here, i am 14 years old female and i live in indonesia around South Jakarta

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I started learning about this world when I was 13 and I am now 27. Still figuring out how to open up about this side of me ┑(￣Д ￣)┍

I moved to a different country to study, before that I had school friends, whom i’m still close with to this day. But in uni, I couldn’t make a single “real” friend there, all the people that I’ve met were acquaintances. I’m quite by nature and I really treasure my alone time so I don’t mind it much when I’m alone. but there is pressure from my family’s side about not having friends in university and how I’ve lived my uni life pretty much alone. I don’t really regret it and I’ve always believed and still believe in the saying “quality over quantity”. I’m graduation soon and i’m afraid that I’ll be judged over not making new friends. Sorry for the rant but what do you guys think?

This is a mixture of questions

does anyone have a chat group about yaoi?
can let me in?, I'm so interested in that (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

For me I'd like to drag people from places that they think they can't get out off.Im very selfish cause you might say but they never asked for your help,but I think that people need people so if we don't do something who's gonna do it? I guess it's because once I saw a person who needed help but no one, including myself, had the courage to step out and help,but when time passed and I saw that someone fell on the ground and how 3 people rushed to help the man up as I asked if he was okay while my friend picked up he's cigarettes box.
It's a simple but a complex question: what do you want to do that satisfies you,and only you and you don't expect any reward for it, something that is purely based on your own personal fulfilment.

What manga/manhwa do you read over and over even though you have tons of others to read and you just never get enough of them

For me it is ten count, all about lust and make me bark. I have no clue why but i can read them over and over anytime and never get sick of them

i am actually trying to learn korean haha :-;
but i tend to be quite lazy )):

A guy asked me why i liked yaoi since im a straight female so i should like hentai/ecchi which has hetero rlships. So i wanna ask how many of u out there watch hentai? Do you like it?

Personally I find hentai too rapey but yaoi has a lot of rape too so im like (´・ω・`)???

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A lot of fudanshi's have been asking fujoshi's why we like yaoi. I'm wondering if you think we shouldn't.

I've always liked yaoi. Even before I knew what yaoi was I shipped. I'd like to blame shows like boy meets world, scrubs and all other depictions of perfect bromances for making me realize I enjoyed this but honestly I probably would have come to it without them anyway. I love gay romances in films and tv shows. It warms my heart that these stories are now being told so much more. As a black woman I know how necessary representation is. Seeing this makes me feel like the world is becoming a better place.

I think the LGBTQ community is wonderful and I have always considered myself an ally. Truthfully, I don't always know where and if I fit into it (I'm a 2 on the kinsey scale if anyone thinks it's relevant). The safe spaces that the gay community has formed always made me feel safe too (not to mention they can be so much fun, the gay pride parade is my summertime highlight and I love gay bars, dancing without being groped is a great feeling). So even if I'm not really welcome it's still something I'd want to protect.

Basically I'd much rather be a good ally than a consumer. So do you think preferring yaoi over shojo or yuri is wrong? Is it inherently damaging to the gay community? Should I stop? I'd like honest opinions so feel free to comment on anything I've said. Also I understand you guys won't be able to represent the entire community here so personal opinions are welcome.

Which kpop groups or solo artists did you unstan or stop being a fan of and why?



For me, I stanned Wanna One members since predebut (pd101s2) but after they disbanded, their contract ended, and went solo, I couldnt stan all of them at once, though I still love them. BTS comes next. Coz of the huge toxic fandom, not surprising right. As a multifan, it pains me to see co-armys bashing and spreading hate on the groups i also am a fan of. im gonna say it, BEING AN ARMY IS NOT SOMETHING I COULD BE PROUD OF ANYMORE. Its actually embarassing to admit youre one, coz that means youre part of the most toxic fandom in kpop industry. Second reason why I officially unstan them is the CHANGE. Back in 2014, they are all about hip hop and swag and cool choreographies. It's like the BTS that I liked back then isnt there anymore.

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everyone has a fear. whether it's big or small, it has a huge meaning and impact on/to a person

fear does scary things to a person. even if someone acts strong or shows no emotions, something that they fear can turn them into someone else in one's eyes

there's that... myth you could call it, that like how the birthmarks we have received since birth could be the scar or the reason we have died in our past lives, just like our biggest phobias/ fears are because of what had happened to us or how we died in our past lives.

i find it really interesting that such ideas were thought of and spread, believed and thought so thoroughly of by many.

one of my biggest fears is the dark. it sounds so simple and anyone could think it is stupid. i once read somewhere:

"people fear the darkness because they do not know what lurks in the shadows."

and i feel like i can relate to that completely, not being able to see what is in front or behind me or beside me, it's just scary.

i also have a fear of clustered holes, or as some of you may have heard of- trypophobia: an aversion to the sight of irregular patterns or clusters of small holes, or bumps. it's not like all holes make me so scared that when i see one i scream and run away. it's only certain patterns and images make me feel repulsive, disgusted.

so what's a phobia or fear of yours, i would really like to know and see who else can also relate to yours! maybe your causes or reason are similar!!