grasswinkeu's answer (3)

definitely ;-; I'm chinese and the way some people talk about asians seriously makes me uncomfy sometimes, like "I wish I was asian" or smth yall please consider what you're saying and how it makes us feel i mean if you're reading smut then i get why you would say [this one asian character] is sexy/hot/etc. but out there in the world saying asia i......   reply

Yea totally. I personal think it's all about what you yourself defines what you are, because sometimes labels can be restricting or inaccurate. (Hopefully?) No one is saying that once you come out you can't change your labels or whatever, we're all trying to figure ourselves out. A lot of us are shaped by experience, and sometimes we only figure ou......   reply

it depends on your home situation. i know society says you have to, but you DON'T have to come out to your parents if you're not comfortable with them, you don't owe it to anyone to explain yourself. the way i did it was slowly broach the subject, expose them to lgbt things and media that i liked, and when i saw they liked it too i explained how i......   reply