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I need help on homework. Help.

OKAY sooo I’ve been seeing a lot of “stop fetishizing yaoi/yuri” and I’m going to explain stuff so the sad souls who are questioning their morality feel at ease. And if I say something wrong please correct me.

I feel like a lot of people start of this rant with the worst case scenario, I remember being so scared of reading yaoi in fear of doing something morally wrong. So I’m just here to hopefully educate you and not excuse the behaviour disgusting homophobic, misogynistic bastards.

First things first, the definition of a fetish, direct copy paste from google:
“a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc.”

Now, the problem with fetishizing the LGBTQ community, is that you’re objectifying them. The problem is society and history combined. We’ve sworn off romance between same sex people as a sin, something immoral and that also seeps into why the word fetishizing is thrown all over.

It’s okay to absorb literature and works, but how are you using the knowledge in real life is the problem. Are you consuming yaoi, then going out to vote for trump against the LGBTQ community? That’s a problem. Get some help and don’t read yaoi, rethink your life decisions and stop parroting what your parents drilled into your brain and get over your fear of change.
Are you reading yaoi, yuri to explore your sexuality? Welp, I don’t see what’s wrong with that. Go ahead, just take precautions and make sure to check tags, you wouldn’t want to come across something Ramey which is sadly pretty common on here.

And now for the problem with reading messed up yaoi. For things like this, you just gotta see it as it is. Just acknowledge that, yes this seme is raping the uke. Now what are you going to do with this info? Don’t sexualize it, know that it’s not as steamy as the art makes it seem like, understand that women and men get raped in real life and it’s a horrible experience that no one wants to go through and we’ve got to stop condoning to inhuman behaviour.

And that reminds me of something else, activism, it’s a awesome thing, but it’s a double edged sword. You can get activists burnout, and you have to except that fact that you can’t ever stop from bad things like rape and murder to happen in the world. But you CAN help the numbers go down. And that’s the whole point, not to stop bad things from happening completely but to lessen the numbers and make it less normalized (if we could completely stop rape, god that would be great, but realistically it’s not possible.)

Messed up yaoi, yuri, movie, books, there always gonna be here. So instead of swearing them off like some untouchable horrific thing, just educate people that this is wrong, use this as a learning experience. Don’t normalize the content, normalize being curious and learning not to do such things.

Also It’s a problem because of gender roles. Yeah, girls are always beating themselves up to always be proper and “pure” so they’re scared of giving into their humanly desires of jerking off to whatever. And whatever I mean, is two guys, two girls, rough sex, vanilla sex, whatever. And why women are so stuck up about morally right is, men. Because men in the past have structured society as a misogynistic mess. So don’t be scared, read some yaoi, experiment, read whatever. But be a good person in society and don’t become a pedo, rapist, homophobic bigot. Do I have to explain what being an asshole is? Just treat people you want to be treated, and if any of y’all pull the “I want to be treated horribly” excuse, get your edgy ass out of here.

There’s a lot of stuff I want to add but my head is starting to hurt I don’t know why lol, maybe cause I’ve been awake for too long lol. I don’t know life’s complicated y’all, just be nice. Literally, stfu and be nice, correct people if they’re wrong. Correct yourself if you’re wrong. Everyone makes mistakes, so fix them and don’t wallow in despair, life’s always gonna be a mess, beware of dangerous people, kill all pedos, get therapy if you need it, don’t do drugs kids, stay hydrated and go to sleep.

But if any of y’all read the whole thing, kudos to you,,, also I didn’t read this over, pls mind any grammar/spelling mistakes.

-emisket

I’m so done, my sister just told me I don’t have anxiety straight to my face because I’m too functioning to be mentally ill. I’m surprised I’m hearing this from her, cause she has ADHD and bipolar herself. Before the quarantine, we had a inside joke about how she got all the mental illness genes from our extensive family history and I was lucky that it passed over me. But when I tell her that I might have anxiety, she gets defensive and says things like “I get good marks, and it’s not interfering with my life, and everyone feel a bit anxious at times” she pulled every excuse in the book. She kept on highlighting how I’m “self diagnosed” and I probably don’t have anxiety and just trying to be quirky. Now from my side, I’m pretty convinced I have anxiety because I can never relax and I’m constantly overthinking and stuff, at this point I don’t even know what’s happening to me, I’m just burnt out and tired. I’m so frustrated it’s myself and I just want people to stop expecting things from me.

Sorry of the rant, I don’t have a life, so I resorted to this illegal manga site instead of therapy.

Hallo! I’m studying German right now as a course and god do I need help and exposure. I’m getting nowhere from my room. I’m pretty lost, and I can only do the greetings like

„Hallo ich bin Emi“
„Ich spiele gern Gitarre“
„Wie geht‘s?“

Im having a hard time moving on from the simple stuff to actually learning the language, any tips?

I’m just saying entitled men are insufferable and disgusting :)

Not only do I have to hide myself away from my own fucking uncle because he’s a child molester, but I have to deal with an abusive cheater as a “boyfriend” just because my family thinks he’s a perfect fit? I think the fuck not. So all I can say is that men who think they’re above women can go beg for forgiveness to their mothers. Men can fucking burn in the fiery pits of hell and have all their ducks and tongues cut off. And uGHH my own sister says “nOt aLL mEn” “yOu shOuLdn’T tAlk LiKe tHat” I’m talking about the criminals and only the criminals so if your a good guy good for you, but fuck all the abusers and assaulters.

Sorry for the rant I was really mad and frustrated

I need some profile pics! Just drop anything have! Thank you so much!

I see it everywhere from shoujo, yaoi, yuri, it’s like blackmail is one of top ways to get two characters involved with each other, I’m kinda tired of the trope, what is it about blackmail which is supposed to be romantic? Like it can be well made but eh

OkAY BUT YALL CAN CALL ME CRAZY BUT I HAD A LUCID DREAM AND I REMEMBER OPENING MANGAGO ON THERE AND I WAS LIKE PFFFT MANGAGO IS DOWN LMAO THEN I WOKE UP AND WAS LIKE LETS CHECK IF ITS BACK AND GUESS WHAT? IT’S BACK, YALL WHAT A MIGHTY COINCIDENCE, IM LIKE SHOCKED AND HAPPY BUT ALSO SCARED LIKE WHAT- AND ITS NOT THE FIRST TIME THIS HAPPENED, LAWD IM SPECIAL. but in all seriousness? how? did my subconscious just want to read manga so bad?

Do you guys think shifting realities is possible? Or is it a bunch of hocus pocus, and we’re all just sad and want an escape? I do think maladaptive daydreaming and lucid dreaming is a thing, but is shifting really possible?

Can we talk about Kings Maker? Like it’s literal gold, the art is top tier, the plot is finger licking good, the character, the story, just all of it is god tier and I’m crying because I’ve re-read it a billion times and it brings me joy every time. Can I please just fan girl over this with some of y’all fellow readers? I have so much to say-

Would you guys be interested in donating for cancer I literally have no one to ask to fundraise

Help

Sooo, as I concluded, if you’re on this site you are most likely procrastinating. I have around 62 assignments to do in a week and my small pea ass brain cAnt make myself do it. hElp.