IAIWE's answer (8)

This is such a nice thread, heart-warming to see all the replies. :-) Hope you found some good people to talk with. You're never alone online.   3 reply

Try to find things you really love and/or are passionate about, and then "nerd yourself" into it. It doesn't matter if it's work related, hobby or training (gym or sports). When you show wholehearted passion for what you do, you shine, and people will recognise it. Maybe not everyone will see your passion, but some will, and those are the people yo......   reply

In bed or social situations? You can be an alpha in bed bad an omega in social situations, for instance.   1 reply

I'm a straight man and I'm also a huge sucker for romance. I have a hard time reading a manga/watching an anime without somewhat of a bigger love plot (not talking about usual crushes in shonen action anime). In both shonen ai/yaoi and shouju ai/yuri there are always heart-fluttering scenes and drama that makes my chest tighten. I don't care if it'......   reply

I think too much on how I would like to be homosexual (or at least bisexual) just to get a bigger understanding of human nature.   1 reply

Sweden. POW!   1 reply

Dom/S (since S itself doesn't really cover all aspects). But switch if partner is up for the fight for power, or extreme roleplay.   reply

(Edit: I actually don't know if this is what you fantasised about to be or if this is your (suppressed) sexuality from real life. My response is to the latter. ^^;;) This is actually not too far away from how the BDSM world works. Your thoughts and requirements of a (BDSM) relationship is right out of a textbook. The question is, however; how do y......   1 reply