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for me, my criticism is mostly with MLs they are always (mostly) alone they don't have friends, and their only focus is the MC it's just one-dimensional writing. like give them friends, give them people that they can care for in platonic ways, somehow in BL the MC is the only ones that have friends while the the ML (mostly) always has to be alone, so his focus will be only on MC which just boring in my opinion.
also, I just hate how they are violent most of BL stories have a violent ML who is violent toward other characters like beating, and killing, and also, has an anger issue I just hate seeing them hurt other characters and the author make them get zero repercussions. so it's just make me mad at the story tbh

I'm not gay
I don't like men
I never imagined myself sucking a dick but here I'm doing it
you are the only man that I can fall in love with

That happened to me when I was a kid. Anyway, in middle school, I was friends with people who were way out of my league—really smart in school—while I, on the other hand, sucked at it. Bear in mind, I was friends with them as people, not because I wanted anything from them. I never asked them for anything.

Other classmates called me their dog, but I didn’t care—I genuinely loved them as my friends. But people clearly felt jealous of our friendship. There was this girl who suddenly wanted to start being their friend and push me out of the picture. (I say "suddenly" because it wasn’t random—it was the end of the year, and exams were around the corner, so she probably wanted to benefit from them to get better results.)

Anyway, she started walking with us on the street, cracking jokes here and there. And somehow, she pushed me out of the way—literally—and they left me to walk behind them. At that moment, I realized my classmates were right: I was a dog all along, lol.

This girl and I lived in the same neighborhood, so while the other girls went their separate ways, she walked with me. But instead of being nice, she insulted me the whole way. She said I was useless, a loser, and didn’t deserve to be their friend. Of course, that really hurt. So the next day, I told my “friends” about it. And guess what? They didn’t believe me, lol.

I had been their “friend” for a whole year, and they chose to believe this girl they just started talking to the previous day. They said, “She wouldn’t do that; she’s a good person.” Like a loser, I started crying. I wish I could go back to my past self and tell her not to cry and just end that friendship right there. But nope—they chose her because they found her funny.

That moment changed my whole perspective on friendship. I stopped forming emotional attachments to people.

Someone was constantly sexually harassing me during my training at a restaurant, and no one cared enough to talk to him about it or make him stop. In fact, they encouraged me to give him a chance by telling me he was the owner's nephew and that he went to America. But anyway, there was one woman who would step in and tell him to stop when she saw him going too far.

I was constantly blamed for being sexually harassed because I didn't confront the people doing it to me. Honestly, they're right—I hate that I'm a coward. I find confronting people terrifying. But that woman never blamed me for it, and I’m grateful for her.
I notice a lot of negativity on Mangago—most of the questions are either depressing or negative. I’m guilty of that too. Let's try to be positive this time.

Even if the other side didn't do anything wrong, honestly, for me, I don't hate it, Sometimes I even find it cute that people are so passionate about BL that they want to share it with a loved one. But I can't help but cringe when a girl says, 'I want a Fudanshi boyfriend who also likes BL so we can read it together,' or when a guy says, 'I want a fujoshi girlfriend who also likes BL so we can read it together.' It’s cute if the BL is something like Uncanny Charm, but imagining it with Jinx just makes me cringe.