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for me baked beans with mayonnaise

since there are a lot of questions about how BL sucks (I'm guilty of that), let's switch it this time and make it about how BL is great, give me BLs that you think deserve more love (also preferable if they are not popular, BLs that are hidden gems for you or something).

mangagoers often act like BL is mainstream or widely popular, but let’s be real—that’s not the case. BL will never reach the level of mainstream media because homophobia still exists. It’s weird how people complain about BL’s so-called ‘popularity’ when it’s not even mainstream. I also find it strange when people brag about not reading BL anymore and switching to straight media, like… wow, so quirky. Congrats on reading straight works, which make up 90% of all media—you’re just like everybody else.

Anyway, for me, I think Nitro+CHiRAL’s works stand out. Also, Mo Dao Zu Shi technically became mainstream, but only after they removed the BL elements—hence why it gained that level of popularity.
I also remember there was this guy who decided to stream himself playing Dramatical Murder, and his dude fans started whining about it, that made me laugh tbh

For me, I can't keep secrets—well, only from my mother. I just don't shut up when I'm with her, lol.

I feel like if I don't post this, I think I can't sleep lol. There is this YouTuber who I like watching who is a really smart guy and really open-minded who keeps saying, "Deciding to stay childless is selfish; there's nothing wrong with that, but it's selfish." I can't understand why it's selfish. I think it's actually the opposite; why give birth to someone when you can instead adopt a child that already exists and needs a home? You give birth because you care more about passing your genes; there is nothing wrong with that, but it's not something you are doing for the sake of the world. Like, why should I think of myself having the ability to have children as a privilege? To be frank, I wish I were infertile; my life would be easier hearing "Poor woman, no one wants to marry her because she can't give birth to children," than "Look at this crazy woman who doesn't want to marry and have children."

manga/manhua/manhwa that you really liked, but after some time, you realized that they're not as great as you thought.

honstly I think that will be the biggest mistake humanity can commit, I mean there are already 8 billion people on earth, why would you give a life to robots where they would have desires and start fighting with humans about stuff?

Please, lightsabers come back. I can't keep up with worms and shriveled balls anymore. Seriously, why are most BLs these days uncensored?

I will just say it: you are not a real feminist if a woman disagrees with you about how men's lives are not in easy mode like you claim and your first response is, "Uh, it's because you don't have trauma with them." Do you want to be trauma-dumped on? Fine. I got sexually assaulted by men as a 13-year-old multiple times; my father was and still is violent toward stuff, and it's scary. He used insults and threw stuff around, breaking doors when I was just a child. I find men really scary; all of my traumas were done by men, but I'm just tired of people who claim they are feminists invalidating my trauma just because I'm saying men don't have it easy either.

I'm just saying villainizing men and dehumanizing men will not get us anywhere. If men's lives were so easy, you wouldn't find statistics saying that men are the ones who commit suicide the most. We, as a society, don't allow them to be vulnerable or allow them to need emotional support; they literally prefer to throw themselves rather than appear weak. You will say, "Uh, it's their fault." Guess what? They didn't get out of the womb like that; we raised them to be that way. Women also perpetrated the problem, like with the stuff "be a man." I was a witness to it every time my brother would cry; my mother and my father were giving him a hard time with stuff like "Be a man" or He is weak for crying and "Men don't cry," and guess what now? He doesn't cry, but when he gets emotional, he starts acting violently; heck, my parents are forgiving. I've seen parents slap their male children for crying.

What I'm saying is it's not that men live is hard as women or that they have the same level of suffering as us, but their life is not easy either. I'm just tired of people acting like feminism is hating men; there is a user that doesn't shut up about how feminist she is here, but I saw her answer in some forums that it's fine to leave your friend if she got pregnant; being a feminist is not about how you hate men; it's about being there for women when society abandons them; you are not a feminist if you are doing the same shit that the society you're complaining about.

Again, I'm not complaining about women saying men suck or complaining about men; hell, I understand if they avoid men out of trauma; we all react to trauma differently. What I'm against is going after other women because they disagreed on saying men's lives are easy and "they want to be a victim so baaaaad." No one's life is easy.

Also saw some "feminist" users say here they are fine with reading male-on-male rape because it's unrealistic, way of you to invalidate male rape victims. I didn't even touch on how society doesn't take men's sexual trauma seriously. I remember there was a woman who was a serial rapist, and none of the men did go to the police, but one man was brave enough to do it, and literally people made fun of him; heck, just look at Sienna Mae and the guy she was sexually harassing. Also, guys, it's hypocritical of you to say, "Men are the scum of society and deserve to be raped," when your list is only yaoi. Are you seeing men as your only sexual fantasy? And are you fine with sexually objectifying men? literally something that you are complaining men are doing to you? "I'm only doing it 2D men." You watch real BL drama too, so.

I will get shit for this one...

Anyway, my biggest chronically online moments are about to show up. (I don’t meet people who’d tell me outrageous lies—I don’t have friends :( ). So, for me, it’s this girl who makes videos about the city she lives in, which is the coldest city on Earth. I watched One of her videos that had '-71°C' in the thumbnail and title, and my naive ass believed her. But I had to Google it to check if it was true or not (to avoid embarrassing myself if I told someone). Turns out, it was wrong. The average winter temperature in that city is around -30°C, and the coldest temperature ever recorded there was -64.4°C back in 1891. That clickbait made me stop watching her videos. Like, I’m fine with some clickbait, but this was literally a lie and spreading misinformation. I was willing to keep watching her content, but that was such a turn-off that I just stopped, like how do I know she wouldn't lie in her videos if she was willing to make titles that have outrageous lies like those
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you just had to shut up and move on why did you have to be cruel you are not helpful if your solution is "Well if you want to kill yourself then do it being sad about your life won't add anything to it" just for love of god just shut up

Do you watch videos about BL on TikTok/YouTube/Instagram? For me, that is a forbidden and cringy territory that I can't cross. I know for sure those TikToks are cringy af. The only thing that is aware of me reading BL is Mangago.

I know people will disagree with this one because it's popular, but I think it's India. I remember this YouTuber saying, 'Woo me, I was going to enjoy my trip to Japan, but here I am going to India for the memes and having a miserable time.' I was like, are you serious? India is such a beautiful place! Sure, the country has its own problems, but that doesn’t change the fact that its nature is absolutely stunning, and the historic buildings are incredible and its culture is beautiful like thier clothing, colors everything. Visiting India is my dream. Honestly, I’m so tired of people with their typical answer Japan this Japan that, like sure japan is a beautiful country but maybe Expand your palette?

you can rant about it because for sure I'm going to

Since I'm obsessed with dislikes today, no flexing with likes is allowed. Show me your most disliked comment.

I know it's a stupid question, but I'm more curious about why people buy stuff and share it for free. I was thinking about downloading Office Crack. I always hate downloading them because you don't know if it's 100% safe or if there is spyware or any malware running in the background to farm your PC information while you are not noticing, because let's face it, nothing is free. But on the other hand, people can't attach malware to a movie or a book, but they still share it. If they share it purely because they want to help, why do we villainize them? Other than that, I'm an asshole kind of pirate; when a mobile game is so damn annoying to finish, I will search for the cracked ones to reach the ending fast rather than keep putting squares in places, that so boring and sound like a chore, especially if there is a hearts system, I have to come back tomorrow to finish those damn squares, then get two block texts of the story, then come back to those damn squares again. It'll take me a year to finish that game, but still I can reach the end for free, but I'm choosing not to because the gameplay is so damn boring, I don't want to play reskinned Candy Crush with a story .

I was reading the answers to the previous question, and reading how people say being gay is normalized and widely accepted surprises me every time; also, I find 'using labels weird because you are attracted to the people, not gender' is not a good take. No, people—I love women because they are women. I don't love them romantically; I'm attracted to them sexually. Yeah, I know that makes me your typical trashy straight man, but I can't help it. No matter how I try, I never have romantic feelings for people. I always hated it and felt guilty about it, especially with me being a woman. I know the feelings of being sexualized and objectified by other men, but I still do it to other women. So no, I'm attracted to women, and I will never be attracted to a man because I don't find them sexually appealing. Sue me for that—gender matters to me.

Also, homophobia is not a thing of the past. I will post resources in the comments, and then you can read them for yourself. In my opinion, you should read them. If you think homophobia is a thing of the past, you should educate yourself about how other queer people suffer around the world and get out of that bubble of yours. THERE ARE COUNTRIES THAT HAVE THE DEATH PENALTY FOR HOMOSEXUALITY.

Also, people are homophobic toward you not because of '10,000 genders,' but because they are that way. They are just trying to justify their homophobia and feel less bad about themselves. Instead of directing your hateful energy toward people who are actually hating you, you are blaming people who have done nothing wrong to you. I don't care about how people should label themselves, and I don't need to understand it. I will respect it because it doesn't hurt me or anyone else.

Homophobes and transphobes will find a reason to hate you either way.

Especially toward queer women and queer people who are not from Western countries, what I'm saying is most LGBTQ+ people that I'm starting a discussion with are always aggressive and always jump to call you a gay fetishizer without hearing what you are even trying to say. You accuse trans men of being gay fetishizers and say they transitioned because "they want to live as a gay man." A huge example is the Boyfriends author; for the love of god, I don't know why people call him a gay fetishizer besides him being a trans man. We are already getting shit from our countries; we don't need your shit too.

Or when people here are ranting about how "fujoshi" ship only gay ships, even though queer people also ship only gay ships because guess what? We are tired of straight shit that has been pushed on us since birth. We don't need to ship it, but you like to pull, "You have BL, leave normal shows alone, you gay fetishizer." I was in the KomaHina shipping fandom, and guess what? Homophobes were saying the same shit to us. Congratulations, guys, for being allies to the same people who hate your guts for the sake of alienating other queer people.

When I say BL helped companies realize that gay romance can be profitable, that doesn't mean I want to milk you off, and you don't have the right to call me a "gay fetishizer" based on nothing. We don't live in La-La Land; companies make shit not because they care about you but because they want to sell you shit. If gay romance is not profitable for them, then they will never make gay shit. For the love of god, I don't know why I need to say that.

I know this might come off as weird, but I’m really curious. Since most people here love men, I grew up thinking women liked men just because they had to, not because they found them appealing. Imagine my shock when I discovered that women actually love men sexually as I got older. As a kid, I always thought loving women was natural and that everyone loved women. That’s probably why it took me so long to realize I’m actually gay.

Also, I know people might call me out because my list is mostly BL (my sister’s done that too, lol). You can crucify me all you want if you find a comment on my profile describing BL men as hot, or sex hot, or asking if there’s smut in future chapters—I dare you to find it, lol. Honestly, most of the time I read BL not for the smut; I don’t care about it that much.