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I don't think yaoi is good for anyone. It can be damaging towards the LGBT community and the people who read it as well. We've all seen the crazy fujoshi or two. The type that fetishizes gay men and sees them simply as sex objects. Maybe some of them already thought like that, but most think that way because of the portrayal of gay men in yaoi. Tha......   1 reply

Chile that isn't feminism, that's traditionalism wym   reply

As a mental health advocate specifically focusing on the better treatment of those with Antisocial Personality Disorder (ASPD) (aka sociopaths and psychopaths) I'm gonna have to ask you to shut the hell up. ASPD doesn't make you more attractive, or better than anyone else. Shut up you mental illness fetishist. Please and thank you   reply

Are you... trying to say yuri doesn't fetishize WLW relationships for men? By sourcing a wordpress doc from 2017?? Like yeah I do agree that BL/Yaoi probably has more fetishization than GL/Yuri but saying that you can't compare the two is totally erasing the fetishization that WLW people face in all different types of media, including Yuri. Like I ......   1 reply

Agreed!! Yummy cummy in my tummy   reply

Update: I'm hearing a lot of points saying if heterosexual people can't read/write homosexual porn then homosexual people can't read/write heterosexual porn. I would agree with that. The standard goes both ways, whether you're saying they can or can't do something. What I meant by cultural appropriation was that queer people have their own uniq......   8 reply

Lesbian woman here, so I guess I'm a half fujoshi? I wouldn't refer to myself as one but I can definitely say what I've heard in yaoi groups and what I think about the psychology of fujos. 1) I think this one might be similar to why some people imagine killing other people. Our minds are naturally drawn to the socially taboo, so it makes sense to ......   reply

Bisexual Homoromantic and sexually polyamorous. Basically I'm a female that is sexually attracted to people who identify as male, female, or a non binary identity while I'm only romantically attracted to women and female aligned enbys. I also enjoy having sexual relationships with multiple partners, but prefer to only have one romantic partner.   reply

Of course you can have meaningful friendships of the opposite sex. This is coming from a lesbian female, most of my friends have been men throughout my life. But I also have friends that are female and my relationship with them have been no different. I think there's a definite stigma against same sex friendships based on heteronormative and cisnor......   reply

To everyone saying "it's just fiction," I strongly disagree. Fiction affects reality. Most people when they see incest, they aren't affected by it. But other people, especially younger people, (we all know most of the people on this site are teenagers) will start to apply this to their real life. This could lead to unhealthy sexual obsessions about......   6 reply