blue_emu's answer (10)

Oh god, please don't romantise stalkers. I have read some of this sort of plot in yaoi before and I personally find it deeply disturbing. Stalking is not good behaviour, even if the stalker is 10/10 hot. Stalking is an invasion of space, of privacy, and just shows that that person does not respect you at all, especially if they get into your house.......   1 reply

I first heard about yaoi when I was very young from my elder sisters (3 and 7 years older), back in what must have been when I was 9 or 10 and they were very against it, thinking that yaoi and people who read it were disgusting, which I don't completely blame them for because my eldest sister had a friend who was an absolutely toxic fujoshi. Back t......   1 reply

A lot of people are making the argument that "the readers should understand the divide between fiction and reality", which is a valid argument, however, ultimately something out of the author's control. Most people here know that rape is not good in real life, however, some people might not - they may be too young, (I've seen 13 yr old here) or jus......   1 reply

Oh god mine was horrible. Traumatising... This was only two and a half years ago. I was turning 14. This wasn't a job interview in the traditional sense because it was something one of my mother's clients (she is a cleaner and she works in relatively well off areas) set me up with one day when I went to help my mum since my father was back in China......   reply

Ah right now I have one that is particularly ticking me off. I have exams coming up in a fortnight and for a few months I've been down in the dumps, so over the last few weeks, I've been trying to talk to people around me (especially because I'm in a few clubs and council's and we've been busy organising fundraising for things like the Aussie bushf......   reply

Probably wish I didn't study and try so hard in Year 7-11, because now I'm burnt out in Year 12 and failing, and everyone around me is super disappointed, although previous rank 2 in all my subjects must be super happy that they can be rank 1 ... I just have no motivation to do well because I don't know what to do in uni.   reply

Was wondering what age this would be for ... Is 17 too young?   reply

Well back in Year 10/11, I'd use my savings which I'd worked my ass off for to treat myself to lezhin coins. Then one month, I had a tighter budget so I had to abstain, but I really wanted to read Killing Stalking and tada! I still occasionally buy officials but only for the things that I really enjoy, not to mention I can't work as much anymore si......   reply

Hmmm... Well my eldest sister sometimes checks my phone since she's a busy body and I caused some trouble 5 years ago (jigging nearly a collective 100 days of the last two years of elementary school lol)? So I fucked around with my waay back a few years ago to create a secondary desktop (essentially a second phone within my phone is the best way to......   reply

Depends on what you think true love is. Personally, I think love is more about 'mutual understanding and respect' so for me true love doesn't necessarily last forever, or have to be something like soulmates. So the 'true love' I might have when I'm 18 might not be my 'true love' when I'm 27, although it might have been genuine at the time. I think ......   reply