TuxedoCat's answer (13)

Anything by my lord and savior Harada.   2 reply

I know this discussion has been going around as lesbians and wlws talk more about comphet, and I'm guessing your intentions are good, but it reads as denying the existence of Bisexual people. Lots of people are genuinely attracted to multiple genders, and those who identify as bi before realizing they're gay don't invalidate the reality of attracti......   reply

Short answer: There's nothing wrong with liking gay romantic manga or pornography, but yaoi as a genre is very flawed. Long answer: The main problem is that Yaoi is by straight women for straight women, so you can imagine how it'd be pretty inaccurate and fetishistic. I'm a pansexual dude who reads a fuck ton of this stuff, and I have yet to read ......   reply

I hate it because it mostly exits to give hetero dynamics to mlm ships- it feels like an extension of treating the "uke" as the woman. The trope started in fanfic before it came to manga, so I was already sicks of it when it showed up in BL lol.   reply

A lot of the redraws are either anatomically weird, or don't match the art style, so it tends to bother me more than fully censored dicks lol.   reply

Who's YD? I'm not up to date with the drama lol (I'd like the discord invite tho!)   1 reply

I'm obsessed with merfolk so this was really fun!   reply

Lol its cute   reply

I don't have advice so much as empathy, I'm also trying to recover on my own and having people scrutinize my eating habits is really triggering. If there's no way to deny it, it might be helpful to explain what they can and can't do to help, and why forcing you to eat more, etc, will just be harmful. I'm so sorry your sister did that, its a huge br......   reply

I'm a queer transmasc guy. All my friend who read yaoi are LGBTQ+ too, but my sample size is biased lol   reply

15, american, non-binary, and asexual. I stubbled across BL when I was 12, and have been mildly addicted ever since.   5 reply

I'm a sadist in terms of how I treat my friends, but sexually, I'm a hardcore masochist   reply

I despise yaoi (and yuri) that's fetishizistic of mlm relationships or genuinely homophobic. The defining feature of the genre is that it's gay couples, so why the hell are so many anti-LGBT?   reply