Mameiha's answer page 2 (93)

I have been in love many times. Some were more intense than others. In retrospect, however, most were simply infatuation. Everything was great while things were good, but I never felt the desire to put effort in if things were going poorly. That is, until I met my husband. We have been married almost 25 years. In March we will have our 25th anniver......   reply

Absolutely! I have experienced it first hand. Let me tell you my story... I was at a party with one of my two best friends. We were waiting for our other friend to arrive with her boyfriend. The door opens and I see my friend there standing with two guys behind her. One was blonde and the other a brunette. She nods her head back and says, "This is......   1 reply

I think that you may be taking the word "manga" a little too strictly. In Chinese, the term used for a pictographic portrayal of a story is manwhua. In Japanese, it is manga. In English it is comic book or graphic novel. A pictographic portrayal of a story that is published exclusively on the internet is called a webtoon. So, in reality, all those ......   1 reply

I'm 47, so I should have plenty to dislike about my body, but I can't think of anything. I have stretch marks on my tummy from having three big babies, but the first time my husband saw them he told me that I reminded him of a mama tiger and they were my stripes. I've loved my stretch marks from that moment until now and will forever. I have fantas......   reply

Montana, USA. Where the men are men and the sheep are nervous! LMAO   3 reply

First, I have to address an error. Your gender is never stated. Your sexual orientation is, but not your biological sex or your gender. In answer to both your overt and implied questions: Sex: Female Gender: Female with masculine qualities. Sexual Orientation: Bi-sexual Preferred Manga Genre: Yaoi and Shounen ai   1 reply

Well, the mechanics differ depending on whether you are a boy or a girl. Or, are you asking for personal methods so you can experiment yourself. The basic mechanics are as follows: For a girl: At the top of your labia majora, there is a protrusion with skin folded over it. Just below it is where urine comes out when you pee. This is your clitoris......   reply

I wouldn't describe my husband as a fudanshi, but he does read yaoi with me. Basically, we read select stories together when I have found a particular romance or sex scene that I like. Then, we emulate it. This is how my husband has chosen to enjoy my hobby with me. He's not a fan of homosexual romance, but he is not opposed to it or disgusted by i......   reply

How reliable is the person who told you he wasn't single? Is it possible this person also likes you? Is it possible this person bears a grudge against the guy you like? If you feel that this person is reliable and has no other motive for telling you the guy you like isn't single, take your time and remain friends with the guy you like for now until......   reply

Many, many times. I worked in adult entertainment for 20 years and had many customers who confessed their undying love. LOL Sadly, I knew that they were not in love with me, they were in love with the character I portrayed while at work. I did date a customer one time, about three years after I had started. That was a valuable lesson in many ways. ......   reply

Yaoi, definitely. "All dicks and no chicks." I grew up surrounded by my brother and all of his friends. My brother is gay and came out to me when I was 7. His goal in doing that was to be able to bring me along to all the parties his friends threw and not have me freak out. So, I have been surrounded by gay men for the last 40 years. I was, and a......   reply

I can never read Ze without bawling my eyes out. It is a long running serialization with beautiful art and powerful storytelling. There's just no way that I can't be drawn in and captivated by the characters and their conflicts. If you have a day to read the 50+ chapters, it is well worth the time and tears. Just have tissues on stand by.   1 reply

Guten tag! I'm a 47 year old mom with three adult sons who proofreads for, and tutors, ESL/EFL/IELT/TOEFL college students. I'd love to help you with your English. I'd also love to learn some German. Thanks to my many students all over the world, I speak a little Czech, Russian, Welsh, Urdu, Arabic, Finnish, French, Italian, Spanish and Japanese. I......   3 reply

Hentai: yes Standard Yaoi: No Yaoi will turn me on, but I tend to switch tabs to hentai to relieve myself. I guess my fetishes are more extreme than what standard yaoi offers. LOL   reply

I get the biggest rush from seeing the seme pressed close to the uke's back and biting/kissing his neck and shoulders when in doggy position or abject doggy (face down to the pillow and ass in the air). Second is seeing the orgasm face of the seme. We always see the uke climax. So, when I get to see the seme's "O" face, it soaks my panties. Sumata ......   reply

I am stunned that a person who has the ability to access this website and thus lives in a first world, liberal country has never been offered, or taken the offer for, sex education in school. Whether it is for religious or cultural reasons, you have either been done a disservice by your parents or you have done a disservice to yourself by choosing ......   2 reply

Takano Masamune from Seikai-ichi Hatsukoi. There is something about the "Grizzly bear that is really a teddy-bear inside" type that draws me. In fact, all the characters I find attractive have this personality/attribute. They are not quite tsundere, more like they are quiet, reserved and misunderstood because of their appearance. Perhaps it is my f......   reply

I had someone do this to me when I was being obtuse about their feelings for me: Tell him there is someone you really like and you need his advice to approach them. Obviously, keep exactly who it is a secret, but you can tell him that he knows the person. Ask him to be specific with his advice, like, "What should I say, exactly?" Then, when he is d......   reply

Your question is compelling and your reasoning is spot on. The situations depicted in 9 out of 10 Yaoi are "ravishment" and not rape. Ravishment differs from rape because in ravishment both parties desire the sexual contact. In most Yaoi we read things like "No, wait, stop" and assume this means the person is rejecting the situation, when in fact, ......   reply

Yaoi all the way ftw! All dicks and no chicks! I grew up surrounded by my gay brother, his friends, their lovers and his lovers. I feel more comfortable in the presence of gay men being affectionate than hetero couples being affectionate. So, Yaoi feels way more comfortable to me. I can only watch gay porn too. Hetero porn is nauseating to me.   reply