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Well, personally, it doesn't affect me one way or the other and that is because I have studied psychology and sexual psychology for many years. Rape has been part of romance for as long as stories have been told and written. And there is a good reason for it. As humans, we desire things and we are greedy by nature. However, the things that help us ......   7 reply

"Love isn't for you." It isn't meant the way it sounds. It means, you shouldn't love someone to satisfy your own desires. You should love your special someone to make them happy. When you focus on what you can give, rather than what you can get out of love, the reward is far greater than you could ever imagine. I've seen countless relationships fai......   4 reply

These debates/discussions always make me laugh my ass off. You all do realize you're reading soft-core gay porn for women, right? Do you make a habit of deconstructing all the porn you consume? If yaoi isn't porn, why do so many readers hide it like it was their older brother's Penthouse Magazine? Maybe you've never been exposed to porn before? If ......   6 reply

Well, I'm a woman so I have been on the receiving end for 34+ years. Of course I want to top. I'm bisexual so I have used toys like strap ons and double dildos with female partners. Unfortunately, the stimulation for the wearer (the top) is still caused by the toy penetrating the vagina and rubbing the clitoris. I'm still getting done even as I do ......   reply

I'm bisexual and have had sex with both male and female partners. I am also female. With a guy, their hardness is a huge turn on for me. With women it is their softness that gets me. The softness of their breasts, the silkiness of their labia and soft sweet scent they give off "down there". Sex between women is like incredibly long foreplay. Lots o......   1 reply

Tried??? Hahaha I masturbate daily... more like many times a day. I have a nerve disorder that causes a dull aching pain in my entire body constantly. Aside from pain killers, I use meditation and masturbation to help alleviate the pain. Orgasm causes the body to release the hormone oxytocin which is a natural pain killer. So, for about an hour aft......   1 reply

I think a guy is handsome when he can hold and intelligent, articulate conversation, is witty, funny, kind, honest, sincere and, most of all, confident. What is wrapped around that personality really isn't important since, over time, it will change and eventually fade anyway. Unlike looks, a person's character grows stronger over time. Therefore, a......   reply

• "You're so wet/sticky." • "Thanks for the meal." ( ごちそさま) But the one that is a turn on for me... "You feel amazing inside." Don't know why, it just sounds hot.   1 reply

Sugar, I'll be 50 in a few months. I've been reading on this site for 5 years now. I know exactly what you mean. I also have to take breaks from here. Otherwise, my fingers itch to wrap around a few slender fujoshi necks. Okay, that is an exaggeration... but I do get bitchy. My last "break" lasted almost an entire year. It also doesn't help that to......   3 reply

Is being 48 okay too? I don't work in an office, but I am self employed as an English proofreader/tutor for non-native English speaking college students and I also help proofread grants for charitable organizations. I am a former nurse and veterinary technician as well.   1 reply

I am assuming that your BF is either young, inexperienced and focusing on his own release or you are a damn good actress. After a year of having sex with someone, an experienced, attentive partner would notice that you're not feeling it... unless you're damn good at faking an orgasm. I am also assuming you're a girl since it is hard for a guy to fa......   1 reply

I am a 49 year old bisexual female. I recognized my sexuality at age 8 or 9. I never went through the denial phase because I was raised by my brother who is gay. My "normal" was seeing gay, lesbian and hetero relationships around me, but I was mostly exposed to gay relationships. In fact, I don't remember ever feeling like something was "off" or di......   reply

Yes, yes, Princess Obvious. Rape is bad. Good girl, here's a treat, now go flash your tits for attention somewhere else. You're an eyesore.   3 reply

#1 is Chicks in older yaoi. They are always hateful, spiteful, deceitful, meddling, or trying to "cure" a man of his homosexuality. Recent years have seen an increase in supportive female characters. So, this applies to yaoi pre-2000 -2010. #2 is Homophobic characters. Regardless of whether they are main or secondary, 99% of the "silly hetero ign......   reply

Here's a little human psychology 101. Humans fear and/or are repulsed by what they don't understand. Now, even though we have this fear or repulsion we are also animals plagued by curiosity. We want to see and experience, even if only from a far distance, what we don't understand. This fear and repulsion is even more intense when we realize, after ......   1 reply

Female, 47 years old, married, mother of three adult sons, bisexual, associates degree in nursing, certified veterinary technician. Living in the US. Currently self employed as a proofreader and tutor.   2 reply

Since the term "uke" only applies to characters in yaoi manga, the terms neko and tachi are slang terms used irl, I'm assuming you mean the sexiest uke in a manga. For me, that would be the uke in Harada's Henai series. It isn't his look as much as his personality that I find sexy. He is very adventurous sexually, loves him some rape play and is qu......   reply

I'm sorry to say this, but you never forget. Once a bell has been rung, you can't unring it. What you can do, however, is move on. Live from today and for tomorrow. At first it will suck really bad, but over time you will start to notice your days suck just a little less until one day you realize your day didn't suck at all. Just live your life mov......   reply

Actually, in Japan, yaoi is restricted to readers over the age of 18. It is only on these fan based reading sites that yaoi is available to readers under 18 because there is no regulation on privately uploaded files. "Rape" in erotica or erotic fiction isn't an issue for adults because adults have learned through life experience that fantasy stor......   3 reply

I'm 48 this year, married 22 years, three grown sons, three grandkids with a fourth on the way. I put myself through college by working in adult entertainment. That lasted for 20 years before I retired. I took premed and nursing in college, but after I got my degree, I realized I didn't like people enough to save them. So, I parlayed my degree into......   3 reply