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ok, first up, I don't think it's "odd" that you can't find easily accessible pills that can actually kill you because generally people don't want other people to die. Second, i 100% get that you don't want some stranger on here to play hero and tell you to seek professional help or anything but as someone who went through a similar thing i found th......   reply

Holy shit you’re stupid, what’s the problem with someone wearing something they think is cute? If you can’t keep it in your pants just seeing someone who isn’t dressed like a victorian housewife then I don’t think that’s their problem. Why should anyone have to choose what they wear or how their present themselves based on what you thin......   reply

I’m 100% with you for everything here but I’d also love to add that just not being attracted to people romantically isn’t something you have to feel guilty about, I have no clue if you’ve heard of it or already identify but you could very well just be aromantic. There would only be a problem if you didn’t acknowledge that the women you ar......   1 reply

Fujoshi but mostly just cause i’m outside of her target range, both of them sound insufferable though it’s just that the hatero has reason to actively attack me rather than the fujoshi who’ll just miss me be a hair   reply

was “gifted” in elementary, now i have zero motivation, don’t know how to study, am actively failing half my classes, if i’m not immediately good at something i can’t convince myself to do it, depressed, i spend a minimum of 3 hours a day on this website reading and rereading stuff, i have zero plans for the future or dreams, constantly f......   1 reply

panic and attempt to just leave, most likely dropping or falling comically on my way out.   reply

I think you could, there’s a chance that the ‘sexual’ attraction you’re feeling is just aesthetic attraction (I believe it’s called) and some ace people can still kiss as far as i’m aware/don’t always feel repulsed to the idea of sex. It’s a very complicated thing with lots of grey areas though, I think the most important thing is w......   reply

Hatsune Miku Colorful Stage, Memento Mori, and Alchemy Stars   reply

ok but have you considered reading rainbow city?   reply

Hey! I’m Oriole and the first time I had to actively talk someone out of suicide was when i was 13! I’ve been the therapist friend since around then and I can tell you all that wasn’t the last time, in between attempts I help people with shitty families, shitty partners, and whatever else might be bothering them! I was also harassed on discor......   reply

If I were to ever have kids I think I would let them on the internet but only with restrictions/supervision ex. no social media until their early teens (ish) and I would make sure they have good media literacy. Lots of talks about the possible dangers of the internet and how to stay safe here. I’d also try and match my own internet plan as closel......   reply

never even occurred to me to check rating tbh, i normally just go for whatever has the most interesting synopsis/recs from friends. i do have one friend tho who refuses to read anything under 9.7 tho so that makes it hell to get him to read anything i do. i think it!s you're unsure about a manga then why not try it? if you don't like it it's not as......   reply

I think it’s difficult to judge whether or not you’re in the wrong without knowing any context or his side of the story. There’s a chance that whatever you said touched on one of his own insecurities more than the race joke you mentioned. I recommend asking him for specifics on what you did wrong because you don’t know and if he refuses the......   reply

nah lol, i don’t have any followers and tbh am perfectly fine with that. Helps keep eyes away from my account from people who know me irl   reply

Nah you’re so valid for this though. If it makes you feel any better I went one step further and actively ‘dated’ one of my friends for 2 months who actually liked me T-T I’m also aro btw! Nice to see another in the wild lol   1 reply

imagine being in a committed relationship lol I do have a friend who uses this site tho, we share manga sometimes but neither of us know each other’s accounts. It’s just safer that way imo, no chance of the weird shit getting out unless it’s intentional   reply

I think it's very much dependant on stage of life, for example my parents have a decade in-between them but didn't meet until my mom, the younger of the two, was in her late 20s/early 30s and already working full time and that worked out fine but it would've been super creepy and illegal if it was my dad in his 20s when they met.   reply

Happy pride! I’m aroace   reply

I think I heard something about a lack of emotions (sorta like apathyI think?) in people with psychopath (forgot which disorder it was specifically) type things, is that true at all and do you notice it with him?   1 reply

first ones that come to mind are nurarihyon no mago, natsume’s book of friends, the magic in this other world is too far behind, and i am their catships’ catservant. all very good and all wildly different genres.   1 reply