purringpanda's answer (13)

I mean, isn't the whole thing with autism that they often simply don't get conversational clues like that? They don't look for the hidden meaning behind your words but simply take them at face value. Just be kind but honest. Tell them that while you enjoy talking to them, you noticed it hinders your work and your work efficiency goes down. So you c......   reply

Man I'm aroace too and my sister just went through her first breakup and I felt so damn useless... So first things first... she asked you for space, so give her some. I understand you don't want to be seen as a bad friend, but frankly, this situation isn't about you. give her some time to come to terms with the situation and her feelings. be there ......   1 reply

Well, I'm aroace and the idea of being sexually intimate with anyone else just feels icky to me... I would need someone that I really vibe with and feel 100% comfortable and safe with to try it out, but I don't really feel like I'm missing anything?   reply

15. I'm about to go through them and reduce the number to 3 or under tho. The real horror is the amount of open ao3 tabs I have...   reply

please tell me x wasn't a minor...   reply

ahh, I kinda know what you're talking about... But I generally lie down on our kitchen bench, the kitchen table, or a carpet somewhere in our house... and my sister lies down on my bedroom's carpet floor all the time. It mostly just happens in the middle of the night when I'm really freaking tired but can't sleep (either when I have to finish some ......   reply

Honestly, if you are able to, get him to go to therapy. He is obviously not in a good mental state and needs help from a professional (I highly doubt some randos on an illegal manga site can help him). He would also probably trust the words of a professional more and he could ask them his questions as a third party that doesn't have any contact wit......   reply

Nah, it just sounds like she is really sensitive... also, please make sure that you don't just befriend people because you want friends but because you enjoy being with and around that person. Otherwise, it's only going to hurt you if you stay around people that are bad for your mental and emotional wellbeing. Also, you don't owe anybody anything ......   1 reply

hmmm... I don't know if I'm qualified to say this, since I am a master procrastinator as well, but maybe try to start with telling yourself to do at least 5 minutes of work for each task? most of the time it is easier than you thought and you will end up doing more like 1 to 2 hours and get through it pretty quickly. Another method is to write down......   reply