Trixie's answer page 6 (119)

If there's rape, I'll drop it (I can read dub-con if it's a good story, even though I would prefer full consent). I also hate stories that their entire plot is based on drama with exes. And if it just gets boring or really dumb. Or if it gets depressing beyond saving, then I'm out, too. I want stories that will make me happy, not depressed.   reply

A vibrator is definitely a must. Just rub it around your clit in circling motions and change the strength to whatever works best for you. Also, in case you live with other people (like family) make sure to read reviews of vibrators before buying one and make sure to get a quiet one. Because some are loud af and trust me, you don't want that. And lo......   reply

I know I'm not cut out to be a parent and I'm never going to be one. Honestly, I can't wait until I'll finally be able to get sterilized (harder than you'd think). But to those who want kids, please consider adoption. There are so many children out there in need of good homes, no need to create more.   reply

I don't masturbate to yaoi. Although it definitely turns me on, I usually care about the story more. It's the same with any smutty book/manga really. I leave the actual masturbating for other times.   reply

I don't feel like dying or getting infected and then giving the virus to someone else and making them die (or getting their lungs fucked up for the rest of their lives). So, yes. I'm still very much social distancing myself.   reply

Honestly, if more authors don't start making their yaoi consensual & versatile, then yes, I'll stop at some point. God knows how sick I am of these tropes and I can only handle them for so long. I might just switch to (good) yuri forever.   reply

My parents are too innocent to know about this. Gotta protect their fragile souls xD Jk, but no, they don't know. My siblings do though   1 reply

Welp, I would be an alpha so I'd be cool with it. That's pretty much in sync with my personality anyway.   1 reply

First scene I was intrigued and aroused. Then I kept on reading the manga and I became confused. They're both guys, so why is one always topping and the other always bottoming? I though it was just that manga that was like this, then I kept on reading more and realized that this is basically a standard. Hella confused. Now I'm kinda used to it, but......   reply

Last year, so 20. I wasn't even into manga before that. It was really just my bro who kept on nagging me to try watching anime or reading manga that got me into this. Before, I would only read novels and watch movies and tv shows. Welp, now my horizons are widened. For better or for worse xD   reply

Thank you so much for saying this! I applaud your bravery to even write it down, especially with so many simpleminded people flooding this site. For those of you who love to say, "Fiction doesn't affect the way you think," please go study psychology for a few years. While it's not as blunt as "if you play violent videogames, you'll become a murde......   2 reply

I honestly don't have a clue. There I was, enjoying my straight romance in one moment, then suddenly binging on yaoi/yuri in the next.   1 reply

You're not too young. However, I would strongly suggest you stick to the non-abusive yaoi for now (no sexual harassment, rape, Stockholm Syndrome, etc), at least not those that romanticize these things. Being so young, you're especially susceptible to having stories you read shape the way you think and see the world, hence thinking, subconsciousl......   3 reply

I'm not craving marriage and would be perfectly happy living with a partner, non-married for the rest of my life. But if I love the other person and they pop the question, then I'm likely saying yes to make them happy. Either way is fine by me tbh.   reply

Not that into S&M tbh, but if I had to choose, then S definitely. No way I'm letting anyone humiliate me or inflicted pain upon me or dominate me, even if in just the bedroom. I'd much rather be the one doing those things (but only if I had a partner interested in that, otherwise I'm more than fine without all that).   1 reply

One thing. Please, please don't go for the "ideal Asian weight" as it would make you severely underweight, anorexic even. And I've checked your BMI, you're still in the healthy "normal weight" range. You can try burning off some fat by eating healthy and exercising (do something that is fun for you, if you don't like standard workout routines, find......   reply