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I think people can definitely change. I'll also admit that I don't think everyone changes, and some people don't change for the better. I think change is just a natural and organic part of who we are. I know I've changed a lot since I was young but part of that was that I had the desire to change. It doesn't come easy but it is doable. You have to ......   reply

Don't worry too much. I'm 26 never dated or lots of the things on your list. It's not that I don't have attraction to other people since I'm bi. In my early 20s I tried online dating it really wasn't for me (if I ever try it again I'm def paying for it). I'm not getting into it too much but online dating is so HARD to find someone normal...or who d......   2 reply

I would if I'd like someone that much...but I haven't. I've had people think I like them act awkward and I never liked them like that. I've had people confess to me before...but I didn't reciprocate their feelings. SO short answer is no longer answer is that I definitely would if I had feelings for someone.   reply

Someone who's patient and who cares about me. Like when I am sick they take care of me or when I feel sad they ask me if something's wrong and do a little something to make me feel better. I mean that's definitely a two way street. I know I give the best of myself to people completely. But I've always had to fight for affection, be the 'good girl'......   reply

I'm 26 I definitely want to be married. I understand it's not for everyone and that it's not easy. I feel like most relationships around me were really flawed and/or ended in divorce. Even with my parents it wasn't until 20 years later that things started to go wrong and then mom just kept things going the way they were for 17 years. Now our family......   reply

Bisexual female   2 reply

I'm not afraid of dying alone in the moment(s) it happens. I'm afraid of dying alone having lived a life alone (by that I mean no significant others or children), resulting in me living alone. I'm so scared of the thought of dying and nobody knowing for a long time because I lived in too much isolation.   reply

11-12 years I think I saw my first m/m doujin? I didn't really know what it was and I don't think I cared all that much because it was like a google image that came up without me looking for it. Then maybe again when I was 15 I'd seen the tag several times not knowing what it was. A couple months later a fujoshi was born.   reply

I'm 25 (my birthday is in a few days though) so closer to 26. My advice to those who are younger is that you are beautiful. Don't let others define what your limits are, you are limitless. Don't let fear hold you back (especially when you feel you'll regret it later). Anxiety usually makes things seems a lot worse and scary than they really are. So......   reply

So I guess I would hesitate to call myself a fujoshi? Anyway I don't read just yaoi or shounen-ai I usually state that in comments. I mean I tend to shoujo and seinen, shoujo-ai josei is my favourite but updates are slow af for that genre. The first few questions don't really apply to me tbh. I don't wish I was a guy I'm very happy in my femininity......   reply

26, female-bi, West African, student (and part time retail), London. Love is love is love and I love it in all forms.   2 reply

Well most acute fear: I have a professional exam on Friday and I've failed it before. I have a deadline to meet though so if I don't pass it I may have to do another year of schooling and I don't know if I have that in me. I've been studying 10-12 hour days and I feel like my physical and mental state is fragile because of that. I don't know how I ......   reply

I think I was 14? I'd just started high school anyway. I'd been really into animes and mangas by that point and some of my friends started reading fanfictions. Well, it didn't take me very long to see m/m categories and from there I started reading yaois. At first, I still preferred the fanfictions but over time I started to like them a lot.   2 reply

Someone around my age who's kind and can be patient with me for the times I get moody. I want to be with the kind of person who can accept me for who I am yet propel me to be a better version of myself. From time to time I spoil myself. I just don't want to feel persecuted for that because we all deserve a little self love. And though I don't need......   2 reply

When I was a teen they for sure did I'm pretty sure they found out about it and where too uncomfortable to bring it up lol   reply

I've never been diagnosed with anything (haven't seen a professional) so I tend to say I get anxiety in social situations. Or that I get anxieties. I think for me it stems from losing trust in people at a pretty young age. I had a hard family life and my friendships weren't the best. I had this skewed sense of loyalty to people who weren't loyal or......   1 reply