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A switch. ;D I'm fine with both and I think it's fun to experiment a lot!   1 reply

Could be aromanticism! You can be completely capable of feeling lust for people or even developing crushes but feeling romantic feelings can be impossible most of the time. That doesn't mean there's something wrong with you or anything! If you feel like you're happiest on your own and doing your own thing, then you should do that, no need to feel p......   reply

I'm a lesbian fujoshi, and lmao I wouldn't do it due to yaoi, I'd do it if my partner was interested in it.   reply

There are a number of things to try doing! When it comes to overeating, I'd suggest, at least, to research and find some foods that are healthier. So, even while bingeing them, it won't contribute to as much gain. It's really difficult to work out a diet, particularly if you're living with people who don't have great diets, either. But it's worth i......   reply

1. I don't hate kids, but I don't think I'd be a good mom, either. My own mom wasn't that great and there's still a ton of stuff I'd have to unlearn in treating my own kids well and in being there for them. 2. I have an illness and I don't have much energy to do stuff - and I wouldn't be able to be around for my kids as often as I'd want to be. I'v......   1 reply

I'm a fujoshi and I keep all of my fujoshi stuff and nerdiness online and only within my circle of friends, I just don't want to come off as unprofessional or weird irl and I have good friends I can share this stuff with online anyway. It is sometimes hard, though, because I don't want to attract the attention of people who hate yaoi and fujoshi an......   1 reply

I'm a lesbian myself! It took a while for me to come out, because I live in a place that's really conservative. I did go out with some guys in high school, but, to be honest, it was really boring and I didn't feel better about my romantic prospects at all afterwards. I feel better about romance, now, and I don't feel like I'm in any rush to have so......   reply

I'm a lesbian and I came out to my sister first! She's always been really understanding but I was still terrified at the time. I was struggling a lot to find the right time to tell her, but I finally told her in a school parking lot and she was really supportive and we talked about it a lot. It really helps to explain who you are and maybe talk abo......   1 reply

I'm a lesbian, actually! And I read yaoi and yuri and consider myself a fujoshi and fukujoshi. 1. I don't wish I was a gay man. I actually find it pretty difficult to find a lot of good f/f stories that really go into depth with things on an emotional level. Comparatively - a lot of yaoi and BL extend to about six chapters on average. A lot of yur......   1 reply

Being in love sort of hurts a little and it can feel like a deep phantom ache just above your stomach, which might also make little "flip flops" that are just surges of adrenaline. But beyond the physical feeling, it's being around a person who truly gets you for who you are and who you want to be a better person for because they inspire you. Other......   reply

Having dealt with suicidal depression and self-harm in the past, myself, I would really recommend searching out some professional help and getting on some medication if you can! (Which can totally, totally be scary! But I promise it helps so much.) I know some others are saying that you shouldn't have posted this here, but it seems like you're desp......   reply

Well, all sorts of people get periods. Sometimes they're pretty similar to heats, because a lot of people do generally get horny right before it and during the first day or two. (Not everyone, but a lot do!) A lot of people take birth control not only just to avoid getting pregnant, but they also take it to avoid having their period, even if they h......   1 reply

I hope this makes sense, and if I've made some mistakes, I'm sorry! I'll try to research some more, but this is just what I know. This all isn't necessarily to excuse some things, but just that change may be slow to take place and that's important to think about. I've seen yaoi with characters who are bisexual! It's not as commonly used, but it doe......   reply

Bittersweet   reply

I'm a lesbian! I've had crushes on girls for most of my life, but I only figured it out when I was about 14-15 and I didn't admit it to myself until a few years later. I realized I had a crush on a girl who was a friend of mine and we had a lot of classes together. I never told her how I felt, though. Most of my friends and family know I'm a lesbia......   reply

You do whatever makes you feel most comfortable - and if yuri does that for you, then that's okay. Some people might feel more comfortable with yaoi and others might be more comfortable with yuri and some people are fine with just about anything! What anyone else does should not dictate what you, personally, are interested in. You just enjoy what y......   reply

It is 100% not dangerous unless you use, like, a dangerous object to masturbate with or something (idk like a battery or a dirty vegetable or something) or if it's in some public place where there are more germs and less privacy. Orgasms are very healthy! Please read up on some sex ed, it will help a lot. That being said, if it's something you want......   reply