lolaandjj13's answer (3)

Alright, probably not worth my effort since thus comment will get lost among the others, but I will try. There is a difference between biological sex and gender. Biological sex refers to where someone falls on the bimodal distribution of primary and secondary sexual characteristics. Most fall in to one of the two mounds of this bimodal distributio......   reply

I'd like to imagine that I'm not racist, sexist, ableist, queerphobic, etc, but bigoted shit does run through my mind often and I don't like that. Even worst when I'm a minority in many categories at once and a lot of it was internalized. I mean seriously. I'm not white, cis, het, male, nor neurotypical. Luckily though, I am aware of how screwed ......   reply

Okay, but 12........ yikes But yeah, I imagine that pan lesbian means that one is panromantic and lesbian or homoromantic and pansexual. Romantic and sexual orientation don't always align one to one. You can see this a lot in asexual and aromantic circles where there are a lot of asexuals are not aromantic and a lot of aromantics are not asexual   2 reply