Ahiva's answer (16)

Don't you feel harrassed enough by men already, that you want them to try to rape you every month? (and being considered your fault)   3 reply

There is another horrific fact: some person who wants to get people's attention or something is saying disturbing things that have nothing to do with the page. And they are doing so probably knowing that there are pretty sensitive people here. Please, if you need attention so badly go make some friends.   1 reply

Your friend is most likely ten times more scared than you about her love life. And I think that if you are really thinking this way (I mean, I hope it is due to the surprise, maybe when you think about it for some time and accept it you could get used to it), then you are the one running the friendship and not her.   1 reply

"is it ok to hate your parents?" It depends on what you consider being ok. It will hurt you, so it is not really ok, but yes, you have got the right to hate whoever you need. Don't deny your feelings, they are there for a reason. Also I wonder if you can really hate your parents, I think that more than hate you probably are very very angry. You wa......   reply

On one hand I would feel safer thinking they are sensible, because they would have done the same thing with previous partners. Although if they want me to get tested I would expect the same test from them. On them other hand... are they asking to do it raw? The first time? Without reaching an agreement together? Feels a bit imposing.   reply

The times I have felt the most lonely were when I had the wrong person by my side. Feeling lonely surrounded by people is a hundred times worse than being alone.   reply

I am by no means professional in mental health, but you do not sound like autistic to me. I mean, if you get tired because people judge you, that means you feel the pressure of other people minds and thoughts. I beleive an autistic person won't give a fuck of what other people think, as if they were dolls or computers. As other people have told you......   reply

The only problem with being overweight might be your health, so your mom is probably just worried for that. Parents don't really know how to say things to motivate, they just give orders or make it sound as criticism, but there is love in those words. About your peers, people tend to sexualize women's bodies a lot, everyting in society and media le......   reply

Falling asleep. It happens a lot when I am falling asleep that some trigger in my mind thinks that I'm dying or something and I wake up suddenly and absolutely scared. I just want to sleep, really （￣へ￣）   reply

"Is this me still not getting over this or was he really lying when he said he loved me?" Both things could be true at the same time. Anyway, I don't think that a person who tells another person that they love them is lying (usually), but people are made out of fears and insecurities, and the things that happen around can influence them quite easi......   reply

It depends on the situation. I once saw a pretty interesting comic strip, a boy talking to his father's tombstone. -Mom says that you did that to stop the pain because you couldn't endure it any longer. You didn't stop it, you passed it to other people. From the point of view of the one who wants to die is the opposite. Stopping a person who is tr......   1 reply

In my opinion, she was probably honest when she told you it was ok to go out with him, but she probably started feeling jealous after that. She "kind of liked" the guy, but then he starts going out with the girl besides her, so the desire intensified. You really need to talk with her to let her know you know what she is doing and that she is being ......   3 reply

Jesus broke the bread and said "Take, eat, this is my body". Then he took the coup of wine saying "This cup is the new covenant in my blood, drink it". Then, spreading the mayonnaise, he said "This is...". But the disciples scattered like a thunderstorm and humanity is condemned ever since.   reply

I guess you are probably thrilled by people telling you that you are too young, aren't you? Feeling special? Nobody will stop you from doing whatever you want, but when you are an adult and you have problems in your relationships remember today. Just hope you don't have to regret it too much.   2 reply

Actually the best routine is the one that you enjoy doing, because any other one you will end up stopping. Try to look for something that works for you, like walking with friends thought the mountains or going to dance classes or basketball. For example "hello best friends, I just thought we could go biking every saturday, what do you think?". If w......   1 reply

For science facts I like the page "I fucking love science" https://www.iflscience.com/   reply