vexv3s's answer (2)

If you are uncomfortable and scared and he doesn't respect those feelings, leave the guy... Also BDSM should only be done with someone you are 100% comfortable with as the whole scene is based on consent. Doing BDSM for your first time when you aren't feeling comfortable is ridiculous. Take that from someone who has been part of the 'london scene' ......   1 reply

'same sex, sexual harassment' doesn't seem to exist in this world apparently to most folks. It tends to be laughed off and not taken seriously. I'm pans, and at college I was nicknamed "les-bait" because I attracted the attention of females, after telling one friend about an experience that involved me being basically 'date raped' by a girl it was ......   1 reply