InvoluntarilyConscious's answer (18)

I'm an Old. I have a kid not too much younger than you. So, from the perspective of a parent: If you're on this site reading this stuff, make sure you're differentiating reality from fiction. I know this sounds naggy and obvious but I'm a parent so forgive me, I gotta say it. A lot of the shit you see here is *not okay* in real life even if it's en......   4 reply

I'm in my late 30s I think I hit my peak at 30, actually I looked awkward until I was in my late 20s, and for a brief period of time in my late 20s and early 30s there was a sort of overlap of me looking good and able to utilize it sure I was skinny when I was a teen and in my early 20s but I didn't know how to dress myself or do my makeup or compo......   reply

Fuck. FUCK. He won't stop bleeding. Shit, how was I supposed to know there's a major artery in the dick? I bit it cuz he shoved it in my mouth, who the fuck DOES that? Am I really supposed to just take it because I'm an omega?! His pheremones are nasty, they all are. I don't give a fuck how I smell, get AWAY from me. ... He stopped moving. Fuck. No......   reply

Aight I'm gonna guess this is for a school assignment or somethin so I'll bite back my sarcastic response (poverty chose my "career"). I'm on the back half of my 30s and in that time this's what I've learned about "careers": they don't exist. Someone could spend 20 years doing one thing and pivot and do something else for 20 more years, then pivot ......   1 reply

potn/jinx. I regret reading BJ Alex, Passion, Yours To Claim, Terrible Romance (or whatever it was named), Profundis, Limited Run, Even If You Don't Love Me, and Roses and Champagne, and a couple others I don't even remember bc I DNF'd them. Anything with a deep red/black flag. bl/yaoi is plagued with toxic stories and it's whatever but I personal......   1 reply

I don't think it's for any one of us to have a public opinion on someone else's circumstances if someone chooses to take their own life after it, that's their choice. it's sad, and of course we want to try to prevent it, but there's a limit to how much external factors can change someone's mind ever, on anything. if they themselves have decided tha......   reply

These are all my opinions so don't come for me lmao. Not all of them are MLs, some of them are the main character but are the tops in their story, you get it. I spent way too much time combing my faves/read list for this :*) Green flag/sweetie/puppy kings: Kang Daehyung, On or Off Professor Gong, My X Report Yohan, Sign Seonho, Oh! My Assistant Hw......   3 reply

rape or sexual assault, but most especially when it's perpetrated against the MC by the ML and excused by the narrative/conveniently forgotten by the MC when writers chickenshit out on the tragedy they wanted to write and shoehorn in a happy ending into a story where no amount of suspension of disbelief would convince me that the relationship that......   1 reply

yo. it me. diagnosed autistic and adhd in my 30s after a lifetime of feeling like a fucking alien. best part, I'm also disabled with a physical condition. so I can't say life's been easy but it could be worse. (I have a lot of privilege in that my SO is able to keep us financially afloat. we're not rich but we can manage, tho it wasn't always that ......   2 reply

Sketch, Wolves Behind Bars, All About Lust, Unromantic, Full Volume (be warned tho this one is a hardcore kink manhwa), Dreaming of the Dokkaebi (one of my current faves), Myungtae You Little Rascal/Hook Line and Sinker, I Swear I'm Not A Scammer, An Ode To Youth, New Romance/Neuromance (bonus beefy bottom), Salty Lust, Dawn of the Dragon, Honey Be......   reply

uhhhh I jump between so many manhwa that I don't know which one to pick if it's the last one I read *a chapter* of, that's Frey (which is a weird story so far and not sure how I like it). ig I wouldn't mind being the hot boytoy of some uber rich CEO, esp since he's not abusive and I get to top. The last one I *finished* (as in read the last chapt......   reply

As someone with kids, if the 'cream pie' is more important to you than the actual idea of raising a literal human being, then you don't want kids, you just have a kink regarding that part of it. If you see babies and you feel warm inside, if you hold them and like the way they smell, if you like the idea of having a little human running around in y......   reply

I'm an introvert so I just get adopted by extroverts and I'm not always happy about it but in all seriousness hobbies are your best chance at finding friends. If you need the real-life interaction try joining a local group for something you're interested in on like FB or something, so you can be a part of organized meetups. Or research what kind of......   reply

another DBZ-degenerate here I was -obsessed- with Vegeta   reply

First: Vegeta aaaand no my type hasn't really changed. it's matured a bit. it's still slightly unhinged dark-haired men with good physiques but I don't tolerate abuse in any form. They can be an asshole/violent, idc, but it has to be to people who deserve it and not indiscriminately.   reply

my klonopin I take a very small dose only when I need it but I spent over a decade suffering through my panic attacks without it and it's so much easier now fun fact: having panic attacks regularly for 30+ years does not make you get used to them, you just get mentally and physically worn down and your nervous system gets overworked and starts to h......   reply