Sooyabeann's question (5)

I recently broke up…so the guy I was dating, he cheated on me and we have been together for 5 years and his whole friend group was in on it.
He has been fucking this girl for 8 months now and his friends were also covering for him.
I just feel so defeated.

I just want to know cus I keep seeing SKZ everywhere on my feed rn and people seem to either love their music or despise it to the core. I’m just super curious.

The hot fish from finding nemo.
Iykyk

I read this one comment here where op said something about ‘tune your violins’ or something like that in a foreign language and it’s been bothering me
If yk lemme know

Is it just me? or this whole bl actors thing just doesn’t sit right with me. I don’t mind ‘straight’ actors playing gay characters on screen but when they still do it off screen for ‘fanservice’ purposes, it just rubs me the wrong way. Like don’t get me wrong but it just feels like socially accepted ‘queer baiting’ to appease a target audience.
Most fans know about this and don’t take it seriously however some fans overanalyse and romanticise every little interaction and genuinely believe that the said actors are dating irl. The actors also deliberately feed the delusions and fan the fire until it eventually burns them too. Like whenever they get into a ‘straight’ dating scandal, their career’s burnt into ashes.
It is crazy how toxic the bl scene has become. Are only the fans to be blamed or should the actors also be held accountable to some extent. What are your thoughts?