eddie_i's answer page 2 (23)

communicate your feelings to her and tell her straight up "your behaviour is hurting my feelings. D hurt both me and O, I don't feel comfortable with you still being friends with her and it's clear you don't like her much either" i'd tbh give her an ultimatum almost. like, "me and O aren't going on the trip if D is coming". so sorry you gotta go th......   reply