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I skimmed quite a few of these answers and am surprised not to see anyone saying they were aroused? Maybe it's just because I'm a guy and back then my sex drive was through the roof, haha! Anyway, initial feelings: surprise, arousal, quite a bit of confusion (hadn't realized I was pansexual)   3 reply

Ahh, answering these sort of questions make me feel young again. I wouldn't call what I feel 'crushes' exactly. More like shallow, meaningless attraction/interest. I'm a pretty cold person or so I've been told. I've drunkenly confessed my attraction a few times, once ending up in the other person's bed the next morning with little to no recollect......   reply

I wouldn't call this a position, so much as a "role". I'm a seme when I participate, but mostly I identify as a voyeur the requires consent (not the creep in the window watching you undress). I prefer to watch, give orders, and remain sharply dressed. (Although if a partner/participant in the scene wanted to give me a blowjob, I would gladly le......   reply

I guess I am. Both with what I choose to read and in my daily life (a.k.a. the bedroom). I'm a pretty kinky guy, mostly a voyeur, but I top from time to time. It all depends on my companion(s), I suppose.   1 reply

Hmm... I believe I was 14 or 15 when I first started fooling around with others guys (locker rooms, summer camps) and 16 when I lost my virginity with a woman. I didn't have penetrative sex with another man until I was 18 or 19.   5 reply

Going to join the short list of men here... 25, Male, Russian-American, Art Professor/Teacher's aid. I live on the coast of Maine. I've been reading yaoi for about 12 years.   14 reply

Personally, I'm a big fan of barbecued eel over rice. Aside from that, I make a lot of smoothies. Frozen bananas, blueberries, strawberries, spinach, ginger root, and almond milk—that's my go-to mix. I live in Maine. So geographically speaking—we eat a lot of seafood. Namely lobster, but also oysters and mussels. Blueberries grow wild and ramp......   1 reply

I don't intend to. Many of my friends are married, have kids, are looking to buy a home etc. (I'm 25, so this is the appropriate age, I suppose) But that's just not my style. I value my independence too much. Although I'd love to own or build a small house someday.   1 reply

Cis male, aromantic and grey-asexual? I'm still learning these terms, so I apologize. I was very promiscuous as a teen and in my early 20's, but have since lost interest in other people as partners. It would seem that I'm more interested in drawing or painting the nude form than fucking it.   reply

Not to age myself, but my first manga was Fruits Basket. The fourth book had just come out in America. A girl I liked at a camp I spent the summer at lent me the first three and then asked me to buy her the fourth (very clever, this one). And before that I watch Akira on VHS. I didn't really understand what was going on (couldn't speak English at ......   reply

An existential nightmare. But honestly, grey-asexual/sapiosexual (I'm very selective), and 110% aromantic. I plan on growing old alone, with nothing but books and a pack of dogs.   reply

I've stumbled upon a few dead bodies in my life and that is by far the most life altering experience.   3 reply