JarBarJinks's answer (20)

Honestly? I would like to be able say "yes of course". But I really don't know. I think that I'm really tolerant person and I never try to judge others by how they look or if they are ill or something. It's just a situation where you really don't know, what would you do until you find yourself in the exact situation.   reply

For some reason I really hate the words "seme" and "uke". I refuse to use them, instead I always use "top" and "bottom".   3 reply

I'd say that mine ones are BDSM and pissing xD I'm lucky enough that my boyfriend is very cool with it and he actually likes it too xD   2 reply

There are a few problems I have with yaoi and how it present LGBT community, but nonetheless I still like it. One of the biggest problems are the roles during sex scenes in yaoi. I've read maybe 2 or 3 yaoi mangas that characters were versatile and not exclusively top or bottom (I read a lot, you can check on my profile). I myself am versatile, my......   2 reply

I came out to my family little bit more than a year ago. It's quite a funny and touching story xD I was really struggling about how to tell my mother that I'm gay. After talking with my boyfriend (now ex), he suggested that maybe if I can't say it, then maybe I should write a letter. So I wrote quite a long letter explaining how I feel and things ......   1 reply

Ughh I'm gay and luckily I have wonderful parents and brother that accept me, but it doesn't mean that I haven't heard some really terrible stuff. When I was deep in the closet, I talked about the LGBT with one of my cousins. I have to add that when we both were children, we were very VERY close. So when I touched this subject, he just, without any......   1 reply

Yes there are. For example me ^^   reply

Hey, I'm gay and I love reading yaoi. Well... it's more like love/hate relationship, but I still mostly really enjoy reading it. Of course there are mangas that have rape in them and yeah, some people normalize it (which is totally disgusting), but isn't it the same with straight "literature"? You ,my dear are in my opinion a very good human being......   2 reply

Underwear fetish ლ(´ڡ`ლ). Tight boxer shorts to be precise. Sometimes guy with underwear on is more of a turn on for me than naked one. I don't know why? Maybe it is something like discovering hidden tresure xD I also like soft SM, but I'm definitely M. Stuff like collars, leashes, being tied or blindfolded. I'm not good with pain, so harder ......   reply

I read A LOT!! Well, lately maybe not so much, because of work I don't have much time, but still if I could, I'd spend whole day only reading BL. Also I don't really consider myself as fudanshi and I don't read it only because of sex or pretty guys :)   1 reply

For me it was quite a long road to accept myself being gay. First hints started when I was 10 or 11, but I mostly ignored them. I realized that I'm gay on the summer break after I finished middle school and before I started high school (I was 16 or 17 years old). That happened on the first meeting with new people from new class in high school. Ther......   1 reply

It might be a little irrational, but my worst fear is to be sentenced for prison, while being completly innocent and being unable to proof my innocence. This is like my worst fear. And it's not completly impossible. Last year one guy here in Poland was acquitted after he spent about 20 years in prison. It's crazy. He was innocent and spend his bes......   reply

25 years old gay male from Poland. Cheers!   reply

== Results from bdsmtest.org == 94% Primal (Prey) 84% Submissive 78% Rope bunny 78% Boy/Girl 75% Pet 72% Slave 55% Experimentalist 48% Vanilla 43% Degradee 40% Brat 33% Masochist 31% Switch 7% Exhibitionist 5% Voyeur 4% Primal (Hunter) 3% Non-monogamist 3% Dominant 1% Ageplayer 1% Brat tamer 0% Rigger 0% Daddy/Mommy 0% Degrade......   1 reply

Well I'm really quiet and introvert individual. I'm hard to aproach and sometimes I can be described as "tsundere". But I'm always polite to others xD And if you are to know me more, I become more and more open. I can talk and talk for hours about really random stuff and if someone gain my trust completely I can tell this person almost all my secr......   1 reply

Well maybe my story can be a little helpful. Here you can look at my coming out story: http://www.mangago.me/thing/about/47181/ I can tell you that it's hard to come out even when your parents are quite liberal. I wanted to come out since I was probably 18 or 19 and I did it when I was 24 xD Now I'm almost 27 and I don't regret it. My parents are ......   reply

I'm super duper gay xD For me guys are the best. And sorry ladies, but vaginas look gross >.   7 reply

25yo, gay from Poland. I'm quite new to this stuff, but I think that I'm addicted to yaoi mangas ;p   reply

I'm quite bias here, because I'm gay, but what the hell, I'll answer this one too xD I think it's actually normal (even though I don't like this word) and also nothing bad. Even me, when I was in phase of "discovering" myself didn't really like gay porn that much. Or some aspects of it to be precise. Why? Well, some gay sexual acts are hmmm... not......   3 reply

I'll gladly join. My ID is "jarbarjinks"   reply