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I'm trying to learn how to sew, anything y'all recommend I should do? Like should I learn hand sewing first or should I buy/borrow (I heard my uncle has two, idk if he and my aunt still uses them) a decent sewing machine and start learning from there? Please give me tips I'm desperate and nobody in my family knows how to sew proper garments which is what I'm aiming for. I know it's still gonna be a long way before I'm able to it but I don't even know where to start man.

The amount of people who take things at face value is beyond me nowadays. It's extremely irritating to see how people don't even try to see the deeper meaning of a piece of literature/media anymore. They just scream out the first thing they think of, act upon their own biases without considering or understanding the literature/media for what it is, and overall just don't look at the bigger picture.

On a serious note, this will have a bigger impact on our society than what people may think. Our society (social, specifically.) advanced due to people starting to look at the bigger picture, thinking outside of the box and putting themselves in each other's shoes. But nowadays people take everything too literally, assume, spread fake news etc. instead of taking a step back and analyzing things first. I'm so tired of people just degrading literature/media to the level of thirst material, or just straight up hating on it because they find it weird/can't understand it (take the psychological genre for example)


TLDR: People are stupid and it annoys me

How y'all doing out there

My little brother just got sick after he failed BADLY on his exams. While on the dinner table on a call with my other aunt from a different city (my brother is in his and my ma's room) my aunt said in reply when my other aunt asked if he was sick and thats why he failed: "He wasn't sick before he left home he failed just because he couldn't do it". My brother's room is near the kitchen so I was worried he'd hear and feel worse and I replied right away "Please stop, he might hear and feel worse. You listen to the mass everyday yet you have no empathy?" she went silent and followed up with "It's hard being a student."

SHE'S NOT ALWAYS BAD BUT UGH THAT FELT SO GOOD. She always taunts and worsens the fire in every issue and situation without receiving any consequences so yeah. Just thought I'd share my little achievement.

Let's take a trip down memory lane, I don't mean recent ones, I want you to dig deep into your soul and think about it. I want old shit like for example OHC, Detective Conan, Slam Dunk, etc. it doesn't even have to be an anime it can be a cartoon like Tom and Jerry, or maybe a storybook in your childhood like Winnie The Pooh

Why is it that when something gets popular people act like it's the origin and paragon of the trope it contains? It's so annoying. Then when they see an unrelated post about the same trope that's about another story, they compare those two together it sm to the point as if they're making it seem like every story that involves that trope should follow the flow and example of said popular story. I know people have their own opinions and stuff, and believe me when I tell you I've been trying to mind my business for so long but I just can't anymore. I'm so sick of people just comparing unrelated characters to one another saying shit like "oMg pOpUlAr ChArActEr bEcAmE tHis ChaRacTer BecaUse He gOt tiRed oF plaYing iNsErt SpoRT/ DOinG inSert hObBy/joB lOLloL", talking down on one just because the other is more popular, saying this story copied this from that story when just some basic ass fucking trope, harassing other people just because they don't have the same opinion/ don't like the story they like/ like a ship they don't like etc. People never know basic respect and limits, they can never read the room, they're always holed up in that little world of theirs inside their brains forgetting that other people WILL have different opinions, WILL have different tastes, there WILL always be stories with similar tropes/plots/flow whether its intentional or unintentional, and there WILL be people who'll get annoyed by your actions, you're not the only one who has emotions, prepared to get bit back when you keep agitating, taunting and talking down on others and the things they like. They don't realize the world doesn't revolve around them. You're not that special. You're just a normal, average citizen among a billion people.

The way you act is not healthy nor is it okay. You're the one who needs help. YOU'RE the one who needs to hear "Relax, its not that deep.", not the person you just harassed for hours until they eventually proved you wrong and you decide to backtrack bc you know you're losing the argument but you don't want to just apologize and admit your wrongs.



This got longer as I let out my annoyance lol.

Like, tell me if this is normal and y'all have also experienced it?? I'm super happy for my friend that they're finally getting more popular in their craft but at the same time I'm like ugh I should've been more consistent I wish I was her yk?? Idk like, I'm not jealous in the hateful ugly way as per say, ig I'm more of disappointed at myself for allowing myself to get left behind

I've never even read YTC but your MC is probably in my top 3 most hated BL characters he's a ho who fucks two men at the same time and can't decide on who to choose so he just hurts everyone else involved. The amount of dub/no con on thia manhwa is also insane so I just wanted to know why y'all still like/read it? And also why this is still rated 9+ bc if anything it should be an 8.5 maximum Just had this thought rekindled bc the manhwa updated again

I'll never watch that shit but my friend who's also a fan of ORV watched it and literally called me angry crying they literally erased the entirety of the novel's depth, the actors were just cash grabs, nobody read the novel, the story telling was shit even as a stand alone and worst of all KIM DOKJA LITERALLY SAID THE NOVEL WAS THE WORST AFTER IT FINISHED....INSTEAD OF CONGRATULATIONS HE SAID IT WAS THE WORST.......THAT WAS THE LAST STRAW FOR ME KDJ WILL NEVER HATE THE NOVEL IT WAS HIS LITERAL LIFELINE FOR A DECADE FUCK THEM LIKE I WANT A SPEAR UP THE DIRECTOR AND SCRIPTWRITERS' ASSES I HOPE THEY EAT SHIT HOLY FUCKING OH MY GOSHHHHH IF THE ORV SCENARIOS EVER COME TRUE THEY BETTER KEEP ONE EYE OPEN AT NIGHT BC I'M COMING FOR THEM AS MY TICKET OUT OF THE FIRST SCENARIO HOLY FUCK I'VE NEVER RAGE THIS BAD BEFORE OVER A FUCKING STORY BUT THIS IS LITERALLY JUST STRAIGHT UP DISRESPECT I HOPE THEY NEVER MADE A LA IN THE FIRST PLACE IF THEY WERE JUST GONNA BUTCHER IT, AND MY BEAUTIFUL BABY BIYOO IS A FUVKING LABUBU

So like... I applied to this ambassador program that required us to film a video and post it on social media (there's a form, they'll view it even if it has 0 views). If you pique their interest, you move on to the interview stage. A lot of my peers applied to it as well because this is a REALLY BIG opportunity and got into the interview stage. So far it's been a week and I haven't received an email yet. All of my friends have seen it. Organization members, acquaintances, etc. Some of them have asked if I have an interview slot yet. Idk what to reply because I feel like I won't receive a slot at all. I feel so stupid and ashamed, I worked on that video for around 80 hrs and sacrificed a lot to finish my application.

I feel pretty dejected about it, any advice on how to deal with the emotions it comes with + other people's expectations?

This is a safe space/j

Like for example when you're in an important position like (class officers in school, team leads at work etc.) and you know some of the people around you hate you and you know you have your own lapses, how do you get your confidence back? I don't need answers like 'I'm a bad bitch' etc etc like genuinely how I need help

DOES ANYONE ELSE REMEMBER THIS SHORT COMIC?? THE HIGHEST RATED MASTERPIECE ON THIS SITE?? I THINK IT WAS RATED 9.9 BUT I'VE BEEN TRYING TO FIND IT FOR AN HOUR AND ITS JUST NOT THERE DID IT GET DELETED??

Who's your current favorite manga, manhwa, manhua and novel authors? Your favorite works from them?

Judgement free zone, if you don't like the author or the works mentioned there's no need to reply to others' answers, make it a fun question for everyone to share their recent/long time favorites (´ε｀ )

It was an impulsive decision please help me idk how to move around in discord I haven't used it for years https://discord.gg/RRuGqxpW