clementine muffin's answer page 1 (66)

stop centering romance in your life so much. invest more time and effort into friendships, strengthening familial bonds (if possible) etc. go out, touch grass, try to enjoy life without thinking of what you're missing out on every second. pick up a new hobby, or try to get into an old hobby you dropped because you were too busy grieving something y......   4 reply

to all the people who are siding with isntrael's citizens here, the citizens protested for their "right to rape prisoners". they're going on boat tours to view the destruction in Gaza and enjoy it like it's entertainment, they've already started to plan out furthering their settlement in palestine and the gaza strip. even recently, the citizens wer......   3 reply

short answer, we live in a patriarchal society, which favours male perspective and experience over anything related to women. considering the fact that gls don't involve men primarily, publishers end up dropping gls, despite how popular they get. and if you're a creator you'd probably wanna make something which appeals to the publishers, hence the ......   1 reply

i fucking hate that colour analysis stuff so bad, "black looks bad on you actually", "your skin has a neutral undertone" like fuck you man I'm gonna wear whatever idc. i literally hate any sort of fashion advice actually, I'm gonna accessorize however, wear whatever i want together, and most of the times my outfits are still cohesive, but even if ......   reply

short answer: they see gays as a fetish thing, they like it but only in fiction not irl. tbh the only reason i see for them hating us lesbians is misogyny, or maybe they're jealous that we get to actually orgasm idk   1 reply

i think gender essentialism on the internet has rotted the brains of these online feminists to the point that they cannot distinguish between toxic masculinity, the patriarchy, and just healthy, normal masculinity. so they conflate it all to just "men" and hate men. I'm really not being dismissive of systemic forms of violence against women here ......   3 reply

can i just add to this conversation, visuals are the first thing we notice? plot is plot, but as the saying goes, pictures speak a thousand words. the way a manga portrays a woman visually gives you enough clues on how shit it's gonna be. hell, our little monkey brains are kind of wired to look at the colorful pictures before we read words, so obvi......   1 reply

tw: mentions of sa and abuse i can go on and on about intersectional misogyny and how even the most dehumanised working class can be a majority of perpetrators of violence against women. i personally believe masculinity is a quota, which the patriarchy makes men feel that they have to meet, and men of the working class, who cannot exert their mas......   1 reply

i have become so lonely recently that sometimes i like to think about having many friends in the future, and just that thought is enough to get me to peaceful sleep sometimes :)   5 reply

to the people in the comments saying that it's good, no actually. because then they become infected people who are making the disease spread more than it would've. more people being exposed to the pathogen because of stupid people like these will just cause more sick people. mindsets like these, if more widely spread can cause pandemics of diseases......   1 reply

recently realised why I'm fucking up all my recent mock exams, and it's so fucking frustrating that i realised this so late. almost all the questions i was getting wrong was because i was rushing to complete the paper, not giving myself enough time to ruminate over the questions and- it just feels so anticlimactic like this is the reason I've been ......   2 reply

idk why you're getting hated for this very neutral opinion, because like, i agree. it's not inherently bad but it can be a slippery slope into becoming a weirdo with a disturbing fetish. like as a lesbian who will also read gl, I've been in so many bl fandom spaces where they go "ew yuri, yaoi is best" because liking yaoi/bl is a fetish thing for t......   2 reply

close my fanfiction, open up my tor browser, and traumatize both myself and the person spying :)   reply

seems like your friends are unknowingly making you feel bad. whatever their reasons may be, if you're not comfortable with it, then it's not okay that they keep doing this. try talking to them and telling them you don't want yourself to be outed to every person you've just met. try explaining it from your point of view, hopefully they'll understan......   reply

don't wait for motivation to come to you, whether you're tired, unenthusiastic, bored, do it. don't wait for the right time, just close your device right now, take your study material out and start. stick motivational posters in your room if you can, it helps to have a visual reminder in front of you   reply

im actually a genderfluid lesbian who primarily uses masc pronouns, and there are many lesbians who are masc and go by he/him, he/they etc. it's all valid, the lesbian label has always been really inclusive and accepting as for being pan but liking only trans guys, idk man that sounds like a weird fetish thing ngl (unless you're t for t obviously......   1 reply

Buldak, the carbonara flavour especially. Bought them because it went viral, and i thought it would taste good, but the smell it starts emitting when the sauce packet goes in the noodles is bad, awfully chemical like artificial smell. And with that carbonara packet, it just tastes so fucking sweet, and weirdly artificial at the same time. I hate it......   reply