willow's answer (2)

Oh, man, where to start! So, first off, I'm an androgyne, and being part of the making of a baby has NEVER been part of the plan for myself, and the reasons have only expanded with time. People that expect me to have a child of my own are clearly thinking more about their traditions and expectations, not what I want or need in my life, so there's ......   reply

27, not a virgin, but I don't regret it, either. I actually lost my virginity at 21, to a guy that was my best friend. We knew each other for two years before I fell for him, and a little longer after that before we ever did anything sexual. Though, to be frank, he definitely didn't consider me and my needs when getting himself off. So, if you wan......   reply