Mama Fujoushi's answer (4)

I'm 44, so I'll add my 2c here. Take chances. Make mistakes. Fail. And learn from all of it. The caveat, of course, is that there is a limit to how epically one can fail and still not have life suck big purple fuzzy donkey balls for the rest of your life. But no one succeeds at everything they do. (Even Steve Jobs and Bill Gates, I promise!) E......   2 reply

I have more than once. One I dated for a while, but we broke up. The second one I had, I did confess to and we've been married fifteen years (so far) and still going. I gotta say, though, I got lucky. It doesn't always work out so well.   4 reply

Gay romance author. :) (And studying linguistics to teach overseas.)   1 reply

In short, yes. The NOT short answer: If they are, in fact, gay (as in, 6 on the Kinsey scale), then they likely would imagine a sexy guy and think of him while he's doing it. Gay men have been going through mental gymnastics for years to hide who they are and that includes coming up with tricks like these to get through sex with a woman they're n......   reply