Nyamh's answer (11)

Have you tried turning it on and off again?   reply

I kissed my cousin on the lips while we were hanging out under the kitchen table. It was before I could talk, and I was still in diapers.   1 reply

Ahem...well, you see...I was kind of a late bloomer and an early riser all at once lmao I--uh--was making out with a classmate on the school bus in fifth grade. We'd hide behind the seats at the very back of the bus and just kiss and kiss and kiss. Making out for a while, like, for months probably. Until one day, I just couldn't handle the worry,......   1 reply

Oh, my word. Yes, always. I made a few comments on this site earlier today that I tried really hard not to be careful about...I actively made it so I allowed my emotions to roam and didn't cover the whole of what I thought and just let a single thing run amok...I'm hella anxious about it still lol! Like, usually, I'm way too cognizant of the fact ......   1 reply

I'm a 30-year-old pansexual female. Vietnamese/Polish/Irish American. Combat Veteran. A Master's student in Creative Writing--Currently working on a young adult book about an adopted, bisexual girl who loves her best friend (male) and struggles not to let anything happen between them. But then she has a traumatic run-in with her birth-mom and meets......   reply

I agree wholeheartedly with what yarola85 said. All of those steps are solid. And if, indeed, those messages were just awkward attempts to talk to you, then enacting these steps won't hurt anyone. They will keep you safe, which is of the utmost importance. Overall, though, as a thought for life as a whole concerning situations like these, I hope ......   2 reply

I have the opposite problem. Every second of the day, I struggle with mental health issues and work my hardest to not let others see, so that I don't cause them pain or discomfort. Though, mental health is a big part of my life, so my people all know what I'm living with...but I never heap it on them. That's what my therapist and psychiatrist are f......   reply

My girlfriend and I each took this test and holy shit I was surprised by my results...but she wasn't. At all. She practically shivered and was all like, "Yeeaahhh you are." And then she bit her lip. Like hot dammn. ლ(´ڡ`ლ) 100% Switch, 90% Primal (Hunter), 71% Rigger, 68% Sadist, 67% Dominant, and 62% Submissive. And as a result of this tes......   reply

An empty bench. And a light pole.   1 reply

First of all, I don't think you're boring. Second of all, I'm really sorry to hear about your bad breakup! Those are so tough and the ramifications can last so long. If you ever wanna chat, lemme know. I'm a 30 year old damsel who can't seem to meet someone as quirky yet kind and serious as me. Why do people have so many bleagh intentions?? Anyway,......   1 reply

Hmm...forgiveness isn't a "should." In the end, they said or did something that hurt you. Your feelings are valid, too. Plus, what does a person want from our forgiveness? To feel less guilty? To ease their shame? To ease the hurt they caused us? And to understand their intentions, you can ask them this: "If I'm still hurting from what you said......   reply