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My friend has tried online dating. It took a bit for the site to really know what he wanted but he was in a long-term relationship for year and half as a result. As long as you talk online and meet in public areas it's safe.   2 reply

I'm too much of a coward to do it but basically suicide. I mean if my current life is what awaits me years from now, there's no point in me being alive.   1 reply

Quit my job, leave the country, and go somewhere where no one can find me. I've always wanted to run away from my problems, be irresponsible, and selfish like that but I never do it because I'm the complete opposite and that doesn't solve anything. But if I'm dying, who cares anymore?   reply

Yeah, love is unappealing for me but it's more for biological reasons than anything. I'm basically aromatic asexual so I'm unable to feel sexual desire for anyone (m/f) and cannot fall in love. For a while though I wondered like you if I was just scared, if it was due to low self-esteem, etc because love can really affect and hurt others. It was in......   reply

Honestly, this has never bothered me. Not when I was in high school, in my teens, and reading shoujo and not now when I'm thirty, a working adult and read multiple genres. I mean, I'm asexual so the the whole idea disgusts me but sex is a biological need for people who aren't and that need isn't restricted to adults only. I mean, if you take age of......   reply

My supervisor is trying to get me interested in it, as a makeover kind of thing so I can gain confidence and with secret intentions to attract a guy. It's not working because besides me not wanting to spend money on it, I'd rather sleep. It's not worth the time. I can do new hair do's and I'm willing to dress better if I find another job worth it b......   1 reply

It's hard for me to keep up with those long series. I mean I watched pieces of bleach, one piece, naruto and fairy tale but they're just too long. Somehow I got through rave master and samurai deeper kyo (manga at least, anime was worst adaptation I've ever seen) but it was hard.   reply

I like it if they're cousins or step siblings. Half-siblings or more usually not although there is a yaoi manga where I find it acceptable because the family has this curse where they fall in love with their brothers and sisters. Every generation of it, so I feel like it's out of their control.   reply

I've already stopped reading a lot of yaoi. I never really "stop" reading genres completely though. I just read what interests me.   1 reply

I'm not sure if asexuals are part of the lgbtq community either. I mean, there isn't one absolute definition of it and if you take it literally, unless you are lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or queer you aren't. However, if I've missed something and this group has announced asexuals are included and welcome, please give me the link to it. Ot......   1 reply

I don't have one now but I used to be a huge rogue fan.   reply

In an alternative universe where I'm not asexual, it'd be pretty obvious because if they ask about my hobbies...well, I'd have to tell them manga. I may not come out with the yaoi part straight away though.   reply

There are yaoi like that but I also think it is hard to tell because manga doesn't define a length of time. Yaoi says "it's been a while since..." How long? Because i just read the chapter and it was only 15 minutes. Or like in sekaiichi hatsukoi. We only get 4-5 chapters from kisa and yukina and in that last chapter, they've been dating a year. Th......   reply

It is much better. I was worried when they turned on comments again but overall, users are respectful and tolerant now. We still have some questionable stuff but the minute someone posts, users don’t attack the person, degrade them because they think differently, and harass them constantly to prove they’re right. They seriously had no life. I ......   reply

I don't use tampons. I hate pads as they're like diapers but if the alternatives are diva cups or tampons, I'll take the lesser evil.   1 reply

Granted there are some questionable comments here but dragging all of the readers here into their problems isn't the answer. Attack the individuals doing this, report their comments, and minimize the drama and trouble for those uninvolved. Don't add to the problem.   reply

Not a big fan of the four yaoi you listed but there's thousands of other yaoi stories out there us bl fans can talk about if you're interested.   reply

I don't think it's right to ship people in real life either but you can't sit there and tell people to stop. It's their behavior and they will do what they like and you have no control over that. And honestly, those who do the first are typically transgender people who are naturally stuck in a bad position and your comments are just adding to their......   1 reply

I want a job that I love, in oil and gas where I make enough so I can pay off my student loans, buy a condo, and build a retirement fund. This whole working part-time thing where I fight to grab shifts to be able to pay rent is too stressful.   reply

Sometimes people that know you know more than they let on. I mean, when I mentioned the term to my mom she was like " well, that makes sense." I haven't mentioned it to my siblings but I'm sure they'd have the same reaction. Friends or coworkers wouldn't understand though. But I guess when asexuals are less than 1% of the world's population, what ......   1 reply