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When a character A blames character B for character B getting sexually assaulted/raped and we, the audience, are supposed to also think that character B is at fault and that character B needs to do something to make it up to character A. That and the "getting hard is equal to giving consent" thing you'll see sometimes.   2 reply

Hahahaha. Fuck no.   reply

Go to therapy. Like, seriously. You can get help and have a healthy/functional life if you just look deep within yourself and realize that what you feel isn't attraction. It's a desire to dominate those who are powerless and innocent. It isn't a sexuality nor is it a fetish. It is a matter of feeling powerless in your own life that manifests in wan......   reply

Do you take Monopoly "get out of jail free" cards?   reply

That people think gay relationships are literally anything like how bl shows it. Or the fact that it lets those same people think that it is ok to ask inappropriate questions about sex. By the way, asking someone is they are an "uke" is incredibly inappropriate and not how things work   1 reply

It's a straight woman's perspective of what a gay man is for woman to enjoy and/or get off to. I.e sexualizing gay men from the "female gaze" and not something that accurately represents the majority of gay men. Same way yuri is often a fetishistic view of lesbians for straight men to get off to. There's nothing wrong with this kinda stuff though a......   reply

Maybe don't...? If you think it'll end badly then just don't tell him. It doesn't hurt to ask your mother if you think that she might have some insight about it. You don't have to come out if it will make things worse   1 reply

I typically don't care about ships but sometimes I wish I could thanos snap half of all fics. As an example, I've noticed that in the mha/bnha fandom there have been increasing numbers of disgusting fics that sexualize incredibly young children. Not even in the way where people age up characters to make it not as weird but times where they make a c......   reply

Hey man, I totally get it. As a queer man myself, I can definitely relate to this annoyance you have expressed. I literally cannot stand the 12 year old girls out there squealing about how "hot" and "sinful" their new gay ship is and evey part of me wants the internet to cease and desist whenever I see the gross shit these chicks'll write about tra......   4 reply

This just seems like normal shit. I'm not going to say anything definitive but you may be on the spectrum. I'd suggest talking to a mental health professional of some kind and bringing that up as a possibility. A lot of the time, especially for AFAB people, a mental health professional will only really consider that someone over the age of, like, t......   reply

Because I'm an asshole   reply

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Have you tried asking for help from other coworkers? I know getting your first job is pretty scary but the best thing you can do is become a self advocate and do your best to find out what you need to do. If your coworkers aren't helping you after you ask for help, then try asking someone in a managerial position. Letting us know what kind of job i......   1 reply

It depends on how they act for me. Like, if they act like an adult then I feel like it's chill but if they act like an actual child then it's a yikes from me fam. But if they look prepubescent then I don't think how they act matters because it's just gross at that point.   1 reply

I get told that I look gay a lot.   2 reply

Well, furry used to refer to anything that had antro characters while modern usage has the connotation of being sexual. There's a "down the rabbit hole" episode for those of you who might be interested in the history of furries. I don't like furry porn but beastars is fucking great.   1 reply

I'm not a fujoshi cause I'm a dude but I definitely have an opinion. I hate that kinda shit. It kinda just shows how the people who write yaoi aren't really involved with/aware of the LGBT+ community past what they see from the way that the mainstream portrays us. Not necessarily a bad thing of course because ignorance isn't malicious. Doing resear......   2 reply