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honestly i’ve probably had every single shitty horrible intrusive thought that exists. to anybody who gets scared of them, it’s okay, it’s not your fault— they’re called intrusive thoughts for a reason. they intrude on your mind even if you don’t want them. it doesn’t make you a bad person.   reply

if this is the first thing that comes to mind when you think about the troubles and problems that come with being gay, maybe you should stop reading gay fiction. try bringing this up in real life in front of a gay man and see where it gets you.   reply

if you value humanity even just a little bit, we need you. we value you. it’s not just your feet, but the individuality of your soul and the beauty of your smile. your feet. your ambitious drive. you are already one of us, i can sense it. simply take the plunge and we will welcome you (not just your feet) with open arms.   reply

if this isn’t satire, set your boundaries firmly— from one victim of ass slapping to another. let them know directly and firmly how you feel, and if they keep on disrespecting your boundaries like that, you might want to reconsider staying around them.   reply

start reaching out! find friends, make connections with people, find a hobby that can help you form that bridge. i met my current boyfriend through a friend i met that i connected with through our mutual interests. meeting and getting along with people is hard but it gets easier with time. if you have a job that lets you interact with people, that......   2 reply

took this in an entirely different way. whoops!   reply

i’m all for yuris becoming more popular here because that representation is important— but let’s be honest here, it’s not a competition. i’m a guy with a towering preference for men, so i read gay shit instead of yuri because that’s not my territory. it’s that simple. i don’t refuse to read yuri, i just like being able to connect wi......   reply

i’d rather be crazy good looking. i’ve always looked painfully average and my looks are my biggest insecurity. i know this might sound ignorant and deaf, but it’s such a genuine anxiety that so many people go through because of society’s current standards and preferences, it’s a collective part of human nature to feel inferior when you do......   reply

mom, i’m glad that you broke up with him but i’ve learned not to get my hopes up. you keep on going back to him and falling into old habits and it used to hurt my heart to the point where i felt like i couldn’t cope with it— i was a mama’s boy, after all. i’ve always been scared that one day, because of him, you won’t be here anymore.......   reply

tf   reply

omegaverse can be sooo good if it’s written well and based on decent concepts— on the contrary, it can be absolutely despicable based on the context of the story. i gotta admit though, i always go feral for a good tension-filled alpha x alpha story. the raging pheromones, the power struggle, the ruts… bonus points if they’re enemies-to-lov......   reply

mm, well i have decent dating experience and i’ve been confessed to multiple times (usually in mutual situations)— but i remember when i was 17, my ex (who i was with at the time) had a friend who had a gay little brother who confessed his love to me at 11 years old… 11 fucking years old… i almost died on the spot bro. i obviously turned ......   reply

i was 15 the first time i had a drink. my mom was getting into drinking (horrible decision on her part) and i had a lot of access to rum. ironically, i hate rum now.   reply

not really. i don’t follow that many people lol   reply

2019: awful, terrible, horrible year. it was this year that my mental health was absolutely at its lowest. i dropped out of high school because i knew that i was going to die otherwise and i wasn’t healthy enough to do a single thing for myself. this is the year that i’m both shocked as well glad that i survived through. 2020: my mental health......   reply