SilverVine_Cat's answer (8)

It can feel intimidating if someone likes you way more than you like them, even in platonic relationships. I say this as a woman who has scared people off by being too affectionate and clingy. Another possibility is that they have so low self-esteem that they, sadly, find it creepy that someone would like them that much. I say this from experience ......   reply

I'll answer since nobody else has and I am pretty passionate about the subject of ADHD awareness. I have ADHD and was diagnosed with it as a severe case when I was in Kindergarten. My ADHD symptoms presented on the hyperactive side so I was diagnosed pretty early compared to most people, especially since I'm a girl. For those who don't know, most g......   4 reply

It's simple. Be an introvert. If you have nothing useful to say, then what reason is there to say anything? I speak when I have something to say, that's about it.   1 reply

I'm not the best at consoling, but I want to reiterate what everyone else is saying already and say that you didn't deserve to have any of what happened to you. Your ex-"friend" is the type of person that should be socially isolated instead of you. I have a friend who went through something similar (in our case we could stay connected through seein......   reply

I thought you were talking about people that get reincarnated as the villainesses at first lol. For the non-reincarnated villainesses, half the time it's their fiance that's getting stolen by the FL lol. The stories always try to justify it by making the villainess out to be a horrible person and that it was only a political engagement anyway and a......   1 reply

"There is no try, there is only do." Whenever I say that "I'm doing my best" or "I'm trying!" my dad and the rest of my family and friends always respond with that phrase and I can't refute it either. It also kind of annoys me that it's a reference to Starwars and something that Yoda says, or similar at least (not that I'm hating on Starwars or any......   2 reply

Honestly, I had always considered myself a dominant type, but now that I'm in a relationship I find myself wanting my boyfriend to initiate things. I lash out sometimes but it's more to get him to use force to stop me because otherwise, he wouldn't do anything because he would be afraid he might hurt me. I'd honestly rather he be a little more aggr......   reply

To answer your question simply, yes, you are going for the wrong guys. Like multiple levels of wrongness. The bottom line is, don't try to be in a relationship with someone that you wouldn't want to be just friends with. If you can't have fun conversations with them, don't go for them in the first place. I don't get why you would even go for someon......   reply