Deez's question (8)

Call me slow or dumb but does yaoi normalizes horrible semes since Asian countries treat their women like total shit and that is projected in most sex scenes? I feel like finding straight or Yuri romances without sa is easier than yaoi specially since sex scenes are such a big part of yaoi, these behaviors are much more present. It’s genuinely difficult finding any yaoi without dubious consent but it makes much more sense if the women writing thse BLs are basing it off their own or generally the woman experience of being with a man. It always seemed strange to me as a gay guy that these sex roles are so strictly implemented and decide which man has power over the other but it makes more sense seeing it from their perspective

I’ve been reading yaoi for 9 years by now and frankly I’m dead tired of seeing two dudes fucking most of the story instead of actual romantic development. I honestly don’t have anything against sex scenes it’s just kind of frustrating when I think I’m diving into a good story and all of a sudden I’m jump scared with 3 consecutive chapters of a dick slapping into some dudes asshole and not having any actual progress in the story. Seeing as this is still present in a lot of recent popular yaoi I wonder if anyone else feels this way.
Of course I know there’s yaoi that isn’t like this but I’ve definitely feel like the majority of yaoi follows this format… and don’t tell me to “just read shounen ai” trust me, I tried

Or is it kind of hard to read manga scenes with anal penetration while taking a shit
Like idk

How many flags ya got bitches

Do you guys have any good manga hentai websites ? I lied, nhentai does work I just want more hentai websites

If you are a fujoshi and feel attacked by my opinion: NO I am not trying to cancel you, I am simply putting my PERSONAL opinion out there cause many ppl have different perspectives on it. Y’all are not being oppressed bffr, at worst you’ll get called weird lmfao. Respectfully I would also appreciate any genuine opinions as an answer. These are all things i have personally EXPERIENCED self proclaimed fujos do, I’m not complaining about hypothetical scenarios or fighting w the air
I know this topic is hella dragged atp and there will probably be no mutual agreement on what is right/ wrong but regardless I wanted to at the very least give my take on it. Personally I don’t think women consuming yaoi/bl is inherently wrong. Even if it’s a large amount of what they consume, I can definitely understand the appeal even to someone of the opposite gender (and sexuality in some cases, hi lesbians ) however there is definitely a fine line where it gets strange. The line being when women obsess over the sexual aspect of yaoi, that in itself is starting to seem like fetishizer behavior. I understand if you find men attractive yaoi might be arousing to some extent but the obsession women have to strictly write/consume gay smut *is* fetishization. Don’t get be wrong I’m glad I get a bunch of porny gay shit even if most of it is trashy cause I’m a gay guy but it’s just uncomfortable to go to the comments and see Brittney ask if the twink is gonna bottom cause if he isn’t she’s gonna drop the series as a whole . Like you CANNOT tell me that isn’t a porn addiction atp. And honestly that’s the TIP of the iceberg when it comes to fujos cause some of these girls are defending the most vile and disgusting shit in yaoi just cause it’s fictional. Trust me I have been in a discord server FOR mangago and these girlies tried convincing me that there was nothing wrong with rape, incest and shotacon when I was 16 and they were all 20+ honestly if you personally believe fiction doesn’t affect reality idgaf go argue with a wall. But for perspective the people that defend these disgusting genres are A LOT of fujoshis. Like have y’all not seen the millions of doujinshis Japanese fujos publish. Or how the most popular jjk ship is gojo x itadori, or how popular animes like super lovers and hiotrijime my hero are. Being a yaoi fan alone is embarrassing to admit but considering yourself a fujoshi directly associates you with all this stuff and ig social media is changing the connotations of these terms but still it will forever be a associated to group of disgusting ppl to me at least. The animanga community has always been weird so honestly fujoshis aren’t much worse than your average hentai addict but still.

The power I have as an androgynous enby, bitch I can pull in gays and lesbians any day

What is something that rlly pisses you off that you can just rant about for hours and STILL be angry about it. I’m feeling hater vibes today