kahidlaw's answer page 1 (53)

jesus christ. some people really need mandatory parenting courses before offspring season.   reply

that "go to a fuckin library" bit had me rolling, lmao.   reply

"it's just fiction." "it's just a preference." - uh no. please keep those brain cells throbbing and recognize if those are enough reasons to let shit like incest slide, romanticized and fetishized into most bl mangas with realistic plots. do realize that it no longer lingers in your imagination by feeding it to your brains on a daily. it will some......   3 reply

about the bl cancellation, notice how the popular manga section is mostly bl. people seem to read it more than sl or gl. being popular will get you attention, a whole lot of it. maybe that's why it's more prone to getting cancelled or criticized as opposed to other problematic genres.   2 reply

so you didn't like how your brother exposed you for reading bl... even though you exposed him first for having his Nintendo? idk. this lacks context too much.   2 reply

Put a Smile On may be viewed massively but could still contain a shit, unlikable plot. being popular doesn't necessarily mean it's favored by all its readers, wdym...   1 reply

it wasn't said to me but I remember a user here who've proclaimed their strong belief of "it's just fiction" bs. adding that it doesn't affect their reality and such. but a quick scan on their profile said otherwise. immediately saw a post of theirs saying that their kpop bias looked like the "seme", how they can't help imagining that it was said k......   1 reply

I feel like sharing a story tonight so here goes. I was in a grocery store, awaiting to be accommodated at the cashier. another cashier on the priority lane got some customers' (including me) attention, saying that we could line up there since there's no queue. everybody rushed tf in there like their lives depended on it. not me coz I'm almost up o......   2 reply

people who lack the ability to listen, despite their demand to be listened to.   1 reply

I bet "fetishize" is the most used word in this website, ngl. it's easy to call someone out as a fetishizer without elaboration here. so fucking easy. never been called one, but I'd deal with it by merely cancelling out that overused response. I'd rather focus on attention-worthy criticisms from users, preferably from mlm people for obvious reasons......   reply

I have 10 cats and zero debts.   reply

it ain't necessary to go as far as YouTube. you could witness 24/7 homophobia galore on my relatives' Facebook posts.   1 reply

these mixed commentators usually target readers who consume bl for all the wrong reasons/ intentions, not really generalizing the entire bl-reading population. as long as you don't worship the shit side of bl, then you got nothing to be worried about. though it's rather odd to get offended by criticisms that aren't aimed at you...   reply

I gotta say that within the short time that I've been hanging around in these forums is also the time when I was completely pulled from the outspread shitshow that yaoi is creating. this genre is widely consumed but the same consumers remain blind of its toxic and skewed content. not that I fully blame some of them coz I was in their place once so ......   reply

I hope you don't mind that these aren't about kpop idols/ groups but the kpop fandom. - I hate it when some people attempt to gatekeep a kpop idol or a kpop group from someone just coz they're just recently introduced to the industry. anyone can like any or all generations of kpop anytime they want. - people who ask what the "worst" generation ......   reply