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The more of a big deal you make about it, the worse it's going to be. Parents, like many people, like power. If you cry and crawl and beg they'll just come down harder on you. Better if you shrug it off. Don't know your family though. If they're super religious they're likely to freak the fuck out over any hint that you have the capacity to feel ......   reply

Yep. Older than everyone who's posted so far. I'm here and likely to be for years to come. I agree that the community here seems to be pretty young. I wonder if the popularity of Chinese webtoons might have something to do with it. Color, short chapters, and no sex. They make good early-stage introductions even if many of them are weak. Personal......   1 reply

Lesbian here. I've been reading BL since before I came out. Started with the slash community (fanfiction) and after a long time added manga. One way to describe it is as follows: I watch food shows. I look at the food and it looks tasty. My mouth waters looking at that food. But that food often has things I'm allergic to or plain don't like. If ......   reply

I'm not really queer. It's just the devil deceiving me. It's fine that I'm queer, as long as I don't hold hands with another girl, kiss another girl, sit too close to another girl, hug another girl, breathe in the same space as another girl. 'I just don't believe in that.' 'You just haven't met the right man.' 'At one point you're gonna want ki......   reply

I see you kids saying misogyny is what being a dom is. It is not. Go fuck yourself. GOOD doms are extremely conscious of the equality of the sexes because they understand the power balance between a dom and sub is equal. A sub temporarily hands over their power in exchange for something else. That in itself is a demonstration of that power and that......   reply

19 Days. I've never been disappointed with an update even with the pages short. I adore the characters. Sadly, I think it's going to end soon and leave me without something to look forward to. I WOULD look forward to Vampire Library as well, but I have to wait so long =(   reply

A lot of people who believe astrology have a thing against Gemini's because they think they're manipulative and two-faced. If you want to know how stupid astrology is, that people really harbour a genuine hatred for certain signs should tell you everything you need to know. Just like any stupid belief, they count the hits and ignore the misses.   1 reply

Weakness, submission as soon as the man shows up. If the author was generous enough to give them a proper personality, they often lose it. The man is often manipulative and controlling, forcibly intrudes on that woman's life and choices. The gentle, blushing waif who is just such a good and kind person who just wants to get married and have kids......   reply

Did you find that here? Seems weird. I only ever find that on Youtube or Facebook where the kids showed up post-lobotomy. I'm a lesbian and have been a BL lover for hmm...don't know the exact amount of time but longer than a decade by far. Most people here aren't that stupid. And everyone whining about the fetishization of people (any of them) do......   1 reply

I think it's less a smell and more empathetic response. Have you ever been in a life or death situation? It's like a sense of danger. When they talk about how the other 'smells good' they're just literally increasing that feeling by breathing it in. They're really just chasing the empathetic response. There's no actual smell. That's how I think ab......   reply

...email. No really. We were talking about gay marriage and I had to go away and think about my situation and future. I have ADHD. And one of the things that does to me (all cases are different) is leaves me with less emotional stability than the average person. Deep, genuine conversations where emotions run high never work out well for me. But......   1 reply