whoisthatt's question (5)

I dont care the genre/type of media i wanna know what is that one smut scene that still keeps you up at night. That you cant stop thinking about even after months/years lol.

I wanna know how did you guys KNOW? Like really know?

i know this is a common experience for many lgbtq+ people while on a self-discovery journey that they have a phase where they think they are aro/ace because theyre very confused about themselves. I just wanna know how and what made you completely sure you didnt want romantic/sexual attraction.

i have been in (very short) relationships and im extremely confused by myself cause i love the concept of a partner, but when i actually get to be with one (for context im a girl and ive dated two girls), idk if im self sabotaging or i genuinely cant tell the difference between romantic or platonic feelings.
or because of societal pressure of 'you HAVE to be with someone' I'm not sure if im forcing myself to be with someone for the sake of being with someone. or do i have to wait for 'the one'.

...help (￣∇￣")

Going on 4 dates within a week of knowing each other. Is it normal or just the norm for lesbians?? Or is it not normal and im just stupid and missed my clue.

i have been having severe brain fog since 2020 (lol) and it wasn't affecting others around me. Until now it's gotten so bad that I tend to not remember things that happened the day before. Even if i do seek help I'm not sure how to bring this topic up at all. Does anyone have a similar experience? or know when its the right time to ask for help?

Im very inexperienced in relationships. But i matched with someone on a dating app and we have been talking for two days and she asked me for a coffee. I agreed but im freaking out because i dont know what you're supposed to do... im an awkward person in general any advice to make her feel happy to comfortable?? Idkkk