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calling your bl a sin is homophobia idgaf
like yeah we know you're talking about the content, but it don't sit right with me that y'all are calling gay male content 'sin'....like you're not the pope
stop that shit
like yeah we know you're talking about the content, but it don't sit right with me that y'all are calling gay male content 'sin'....like you're not the pope
stop that shit
about be a dumb bitch
that gotta say in a BL or yuri comment section that the other genre is better... LET ME TELL YOU RIGHT NOW WE DO NOT CARE
Compared to many romance genre on there, BL covers seem the most sexual, why is that??? the fetishization....
Also little rant, i don't feel welcome in the BL community
it feels like it's not for me, like those BLs are not for me, before anyone says ' well romance is targeted toward women' then why do like romance gay movies?? who are many time written by actual gay men? like i don't feel represented in those BL, those comics or whatever that stuff is, i can't stomach seeing rape in BL, but yet all those girls are okay with it?? but yet i know if u saw that in a non bl romance manga you guys will run to twitter and make a thread on it, like if u are a woman, and u read BL and then see toxic or rapey stuff in it you need to drop it, u have the louder voices in the community so stop uplifting BLS with rape in it, then get mad when MLM complain about it? like that's your fault.
There is a reason why i have to bone pick my BLs, yet most girls on here when it comes to BL seem to be reading ANYTHING (it could be animals doing it) y'all are as bad as straight men (esp when it comes to shota)
because it's obviously there for your pleasures and not mine, BLS would be so much more fun if they were written more by mlm or atleast by women who know about MLM culture , like i could relate to so many things, cry over so many things that happened IRL, like i'm not crying anymore to the 'people don't accept him' trope it's overplayed and can be written by anyone at this point.
Also little rant, i don't feel welcome in the BL community
it feels like it's not for me, like those BLs are not for me, before anyone says ' well romance is targeted toward women' then why do like romance gay movies?? who are many time written by actual gay men? like i don't feel represented in those BL, those comics or whatever that stuff is, i can't stomach seeing rape in BL, but yet all those girls are okay with it?? but yet i know if u saw that in a non bl romance manga you guys will run to twitter and make a thread on it, like if u are a woman, and u read BL and then see toxic or rapey stuff in it you need to drop it, u have the louder voices in the community so stop uplifting BLS with rape in it, then get mad when MLM complain about it? like that's your fault.
There is a reason why i have to bone pick my BLs, yet most girls on here when it comes to BL seem to be reading ANYTHING (it could be animals doing it) y'all are as bad as straight men (esp when it comes to shota)
because it's obviously there for your pleasures and not mine, BLS would be so much more fun if they were written more by mlm or atleast by women who know about MLM culture , like i could relate to so many things, cry over so many things that happened IRL, like i'm not crying anymore to the 'people don't accept him' trope it's overplayed and can be written by anyone at this point.
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Why do women keep making BLs with rape or incest in it animated or they make them popular? i'm so tired...and also the ones that get popular always the ugliest ART, it's so hard being gay guy in the bl fandom/community, i can't even read SMUT because it's obviously not catered toward me
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Some of y'all on this site are literally pretending to be fudanshis, like They be like 'women can fetishize us, they can ship us irl, it doesn't matter snowflake, also ..did i tell you i love rupaul drag ass slay mama' u go on their account bio, and they have the two boys kissing emoji, a phrase in each language saying 'i'm gay and proud'
Them saying they are a top or bottom in their bio, like stop lying.
it's pathetic. you are EMMA, you are not JOSH.
Them saying they are a top or bottom in their bio, like stop lying.
it's pathetic. you are EMMA, you are not JOSH.
okay, so a few months ago i was the person that would say women should stop reading Bls and stuff like that, and i will explain and show how it was a product of my environnemnt.
growing up in BL circles fetishization of gay men was very frequent, most bls media would have some type of assault and women would constantly say that it was hot that there were r4pe in it, after that i grew disguted of women who read bls even the wholesome ones, and me (a gay guy) made more and more gay male friends that had the same opinion as me, we wanted women to stop reading Bls.
And i feel bad kinda. i do not want women to stop reading bls
i befriended women who would read bls with no r'pe in it and assault, who were listening to MLM , they would recommend bls stories made by queer men. and it was nice
i hope that women in the bl fandom stop fetishizing gay men(not because they read it ) but by how they act, and hope bl content stop having r4pe, assault and only smut with no storyline.
growing up in BL circles fetishization of gay men was very frequent, most bls media would have some type of assault and women would constantly say that it was hot that there were r4pe in it, after that i grew disguted of women who read bls even the wholesome ones, and me (a gay guy) made more and more gay male friends that had the same opinion as me, we wanted women to stop reading Bls.
And i feel bad kinda. i do not want women to stop reading bls
i befriended women who would read bls with no r'pe in it and assault, who were listening to MLM , they would recommend bls stories made by queer men. and it was nice
i hope that women in the bl fandom stop fetishizing gay men(not because they read it ) but by how they act, and hope bl content stop having r4pe, assault and only smut with no storyline.
about procrastination
about lmao
okay, so a few months ago i was the person that would say women should stop reading Bls and stuff like that, and i will explain and show how it was a product of my environnemnt.
growing up in BL circles fetishization of gay men was very frequent, most bls media would have some type of assault and women would constantly say that it was hot that there were r4pe in it, after that i grew disguted of women who read bls even the wholesome ones, and me (a gay guy) made more and more gay male friends that had the same opinion as me, we wanted women to stop reading Bls.
And i feel bad kinda. i do not want women to stop reading bls
i befriended women who would read bls with no r'pe in it and assault, who were listening to MLM , they would recommend bls stories made by queer men. and it was nice
i hope that women in the bl fandom stop fetishizing gay men(not because they read it ) but by how they act, and hope bl content stop having r4pe, assault and only smut with no storyline.
growing up in BL circles fetishization of gay men was very frequent, most bls media would have some type of assault and women would constantly say that it was hot that there were r4pe in it, after that i grew disguted of women who read bls even the wholesome ones, and me (a gay guy) made more and more gay male friends that had the same opinion as me, we wanted women to stop reading Bls.
And i feel bad kinda. i do not want women to stop reading bls
i befriended women who would read bls with no r'pe in it and assault, who were listening to MLM , they would recommend bls stories made by queer men. and it was nice
i hope that women in the bl fandom stop fetishizing gay men(not because they read it ) but by how they act, and hope bl content stop having r4pe, assault and only smut with no storyline.
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Hey people, i want to vent.
I've been really sport depressed for two months now(ye..) and so i wanted to work out again and my parents talked about it with me and i was kinda excited to start but then my dad said 'you need to do sport to attract girls. ' and the idea of doing sport again after he said that turned me off. i'm a gay male and all my life people have told me to work out/do sport not to be healthy but in a toxic masculinity way (just to get girls basically) and idk what to do
I've been really sport depressed for two months now(ye..) and so i wanted to work out again and my parents talked about it with me and i was kinda excited to start but then my dad said 'you need to do sport to attract girls. ' and the idea of doing sport again after he said that turned me off. i'm a gay male and all my life people have told me to work out/do sport not to be healthy but in a toxic masculinity way (just to get girls basically) and idk what to do
i'm reading
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/until_i_meet_my_husband/
and i was legit crying already in the beginning, this is literally my life, like everything mirrors exactly what i went through as a gay man,
not surprised when i saw it was written by a gay man? or atleast it was taken from an actual gay activist
this is good rep, i'm crying on the floor right now
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/until_i_meet_my_husband/
and i was legit crying already in the beginning, this is literally my life, like everything mirrors exactly what i went through as a gay man,
not surprised when i saw it was written by a gay man? or atleast it was taken from an actual gay activist
this is good rep, i'm crying on the floor right now
You guys know i always come with the hot takes
Here is why yuri trope is mostly fem4fem while BL/yaoi trope is mostly masc4fem,
it's because the way men fetishize queer women is different than the way women fetishize queer men.
Men have this 'voyeur' fetish, in which they want the two girls 'doing it' to be people of their own so that they can put on a show for him.
while women when they fetishize queer men they insert themselves in the story/smut they imagine themselves as the 'bottom' this is why everyday some girl say shit like ' i wish i was a guy so i can have g4y seZ" but we don't see straight men being like ' i wish i was a girl'
Here is why yuri trope is mostly fem4fem while BL/yaoi trope is mostly masc4fem,
it's because the way men fetishize queer women is different than the way women fetishize queer men.
Men have this 'voyeur' fetish, in which they want the two girls 'doing it' to be people of their own so that they can put on a show for him.
while women when they fetishize queer men they insert themselves in the story/smut they imagine themselves as the 'bottom' this is why everyday some girl say shit like ' i wish i was a guy so i can have g4y seZ" but we don't see straight men being like ' i wish i was a girl'
about hate myself
I'm praying to god right now that y'all fujos don't romantizice assault or don't talk about how some scenes were 'spicy'
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Hey omg there is a new bl that is going to be animated OMGG YESS WE WOONN, it's SUCH a gift
the gift in question =
Sex, rape, pedophilia, incest.
Like i don't care if 'i got f*cked by my bestfriend* get animated, it's just sex..and literally most sex scenes are men x woman...where is the gift?
the gift in question =
Sex, rape, pedophilia, incest.
Like i don't care if 'i got f*cked by my bestfriend* get animated, it's just sex..and literally most sex scenes are men x woman...where is the gift?
about lmao
GO READ IT RIGHT NOW, it's literally so good omg
mangago need to stop sleeping on masterpieces..like y'all will read a dog fuck a random guy but sleep on mangas like this
mangago need to stop sleeping on masterpieces..like y'all will read a dog fuck a random guy but sleep on mangas like this
about lmao
i get downvoted for saying shota is bad
Now do the same thing tell me what's something that you see that is unique to the site
Now do the same thing tell me what's something that you see that is unique to the site
have you heard about teraific on tiktok? she was accused of fetishizing because of the fact she talked about s3x toys who are mostly used by mlm, and that is bad, bl is not here for your 's3xual pleasure' but like the comments were all defending her and speaking over mlm, she even said that we can't hate on straight women ( help hdnezfj ) saying that us mlm were doing too much etc, i'm tired...
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about favorite yaoi manga
The mangas in question = TWO GAY MEN, TWO MEN OF HOMOSEXUAL EXPERIENCE, MEN X MEN, M4M, TWO MEN HOMOSEXUALING
but not you guys are not ready for that conversation, go ahead mackenzie go read a psychological romance involving a man and woman. GO AHEAD, since y'all love it. where is it? and before you say there is more psychological bl mangas, no there is not you are on mangago remember this BL world i have no problem with y'all reading psychological bls but when you guys are reading straight psychological mangas? when ? oh now it's bad? now it's 'misogynistic representation of women' i hate y'all. most annoying mfers
but not you guys are not ready for that conversation, go ahead mackenzie go read a psychological romance involving a man and woman. GO AHEAD, since y'all love it. where is it? and before you say there is more psychological bl mangas, no there is not you are on mangago remember this BL world i have no problem with y'all reading psychological bls but when you guys are reading straight psychological mangas? when ? oh now it's bad? now it's 'misogynistic representation of women' i hate y'all. most annoying mfers