somnia's answer (7)

Seeing this pop out of nowhere was terrifying lmao. Maybe just don't make fanfics of people when they ask you not to, doesn't matter if they're a minor or what. You thinking of a kid like that and slut shaming out of nowhere is hella weird too. To the asylum you go.   reply

It's because we mostly read trash bl manga (manwha, etc.) and have this very specific stereo type of feminine bottoms stuck in our head. Tiny, feminine, infantilized, naive with no will of his own who needs constant rescue - with minimal alterations between BLs. I think most readers don't even hate twinks. I find them hot, ngl I'm one of those fujo......   reply

I feel like that twink trope itself is trying to put a belt around that spectrum of gender, sex and its expression. What bothers some people is that twinks are reduced to that specific character sheet >so often< to appeal to an overwhelmingly female audience (which is a non-issue tbh). But yea, no one really minds or notices when the story's good......   2 reply

I didn't read half of that but let's just say this: It's ok to be single at your age, you don't need to look at what other people say or want or do. Just go with the flow, you got time sis. Same goes for when you're in a relationship, take your time and don't let your expectations ruin the moment.   reply

You always go with another person when meeting a stranger. You do not do that type of shit alone. And if you have to, be at super public places where he can't do any funny business and stay there until you go seperate ways. You meet up, check out the vibes and book it with whatever excuse the moment you feel he's being too crispy. I may be biased b......   reply

In the end of the day we want our strong female characters to be written just like strong male protagonists, or just any main character I feel. You know the drill, decent lore, personality and what not. But especially >strong< characters should have power over themselves, I feel. It's less about being mentally strong, politically influencal or magi......   1 reply