about dating
hii I need major help! Okay so there’s this guy in my class we’ll call him ‘R’. In the beginning of the school year he reminded me a lot of Yohan (from Sign) and they share quite a lot of similarities. But I didn’t think of it much, then two weeks ago I find out that my friends also find him attractive! And lately I been finding myself making up excuses to talk to him and stuff like yesterday I asked to borrow an eraser, he sits behind me by the way, he said sure but never gave me one . At first I thought I was just maybe attracted to him or maybe I’m simping. But I don’t know anymore! PLEASE GIVE ME YOUR OPINIONN
Some stuff about ‘R’
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He’s really quiet, barely talks
A bit of a loner
DOESNT talk to girls
Really smart
Tall, has really smooth and nice voice (main reason why I’m attracted)
REALLY SMART
Quite athletic
He’s really serious and rarely smiles
He’s pretty funny when he tries
He loves anime (which makes me attracted to him even more)
He’s a gamer and has discord but I don’t have the courage to ask him
My friend said he’s really nice and quite a gentleman
Some stuff about ‘R’
————————————
He’s really quiet, barely talks
A bit of a loner
DOESNT talk to girls
Really smart
Tall, has really smooth and nice voice (main reason why I’m attracted)
REALLY SMART
Quite athletic
He’s really serious and rarely smiles
He’s pretty funny when he tries
He loves anime (which makes me attracted to him even more)
He’s a gamer and has discord but I don’t have the courage to ask him
My friend said he’s really nice and quite a gentleman
about dating
Storytime! (I’ll try to make it as short as possible)
This happened a couple years ago (Grade 6). A friend of mine (we’ll call her M) had a crush on this dude that our best friend liked (we’ll call him D). She felt really guilty about it and tried to get rid of her feelings but we all told her that it’s not her fault. So then moving on, they’re both in grade 7. D confessed to M that he also liked her. She thought of rejecting him since our best friend was gonna be hurt really badly, but she really liked D so she accepted.
(KEEP IN MIND SHE’S 12 HERE AND HE’S 13) few months go by after they became a ‘thing’ she told her dad she was heading over to our best friends house for a band practice and she did, but she left to go over to D’s house after. Then apparently they were making out and things got heated and he ended up fingering her WITH A BARBIE MOVIE PLAYING ON THE BACK . Then his bro was knocking and she said they almost got caught. She told me that they planned this all out weeks before going to his house, but the dude only agreed on fingering her since they both don’t want to do anything ‘bad’. We’re 14 now and I’m honestly really disappointed she did this. But it seems like she really regrets all of it. Any opinions?
Background on M
- a lot of people like her
- one of the sweetest people you will meet
- a h0e for her husbandos
- will not flirt unless you’re her boyfriend
- literally just such a nice person
- her parents found out they were ‘dating’ she got in MASSIVE TROUBLE and had all her devices taken for a year
- idk what else to say tbh I’m just shocked she told me this
This happened a couple years ago (Grade 6). A friend of mine (we’ll call her M) had a crush on this dude that our best friend liked (we’ll call him D). She felt really guilty about it and tried to get rid of her feelings but we all told her that it’s not her fault. So then moving on, they’re both in grade 7. D confessed to M that he also liked her. She thought of rejecting him since our best friend was gonna be hurt really badly, but she really liked D so she accepted.
(KEEP IN MIND SHE’S 12 HERE AND HE’S 13) few months go by after they became a ‘thing’ she told her dad she was heading over to our best friends house for a band practice and she did, but she left to go over to D’s house after. Then apparently they were making out and things got heated and he ended up fingering her WITH A BARBIE MOVIE PLAYING ON THE BACK . Then his bro was knocking and she said they almost got caught. She told me that they planned this all out weeks before going to his house, but the dude only agreed on fingering her since they both don’t want to do anything ‘bad’. We’re 14 now and I’m honestly really disappointed she did this. But it seems like she really regrets all of it. Any opinions?
Background on M
- a lot of people like her
- one of the sweetest people you will meet
- a h0e for her husbandos
- will not flirt unless you’re her boyfriend
- literally just such a nice person
- her parents found out they were ‘dating’ she got in MASSIVE TROUBLE and had all her devices taken for a year
- idk what else to say tbh I’m just shocked she told me this