windupbird's answer (7)

As someone that got a first kiss (a proper one, not on the cheek or forehead but on the lips) at 22, I'd tell you to just wait until your dating someone that you not only like but love. :) Without feelings behind it kissing wouldn't be that worth it honestly, its just physical contact if you don't care at all about the person. Mine was just snuc......   2 reply

I had a relationship for around 7 years, through childhood and we broke up at 17. I really get you, because there's something about having that when your young and it feels terrible. Like you'll never find someone else... Just focus on yourself and don't feel like you have to pursue anyone, there isn't a rush. I focused on myself, on my own ha......   2 reply

I used to wish to see my older self all the time in the sense that I wouldn't have felt crazy if it actually happened. I would think that my older self would have the "solution", would find "happiness" But none of those problems would get fixed from my younger frame of mind as an adult. I would tell my younger self you will find happiness one ......   reply

I was 9 or 10 when I first started reading yaoi slash. If you count yaoi manga, that came years later though, I had to be 13 or 14. If you count from when I first started reading it, I was so young that I didn't get the subtext for 2-3 whole YEARS. I just thought it was cuddling or the same as hugging and kissing. I bookmarked a couple stories......   reply

I'm not sure how /you/ would react being me... I would first say I'm unlucky. Terribly unlucky, I either lose, break, forget, or am late for important/unimportant things everyday. People freak out over that kind of thing, but I'm just so used to it that if one good thing happens I'm overly excited for it... That kind of thing requires a certain k......   1 reply

INTP. I just can't really relate emotionally to people which is the only downside. (￣∇￣") But that's more because I have a problem solver mindset, still with age I've learned how to smile and mimic emotion to where people are usually satisfied on a surface level. Drives the feelers close to me crazy though.   reply

Its funny, because even very young as a hobby I fell into reading romance manga and novels. The idea of finding a precious soul mate, true love that conquers all...of course it hurts when that reality can't be found. But its still something to be admired. I grew up watching my parents who really loved each other, separate because they couldn't w......   reply