about lmao
21 06,2021
Y'all my friend texted me saying "lately it feels illegal to be white" I thought she was joking and I was dying of laughter but she was serious and now I'm laughing even more
about question
10 07,2021
(Sorry for the clickbait title)
What are some good questions I can put on a mangago census??
What are some good questions I can put on a mangago census??
about question
Why do so many people refer to characters as their sex position-
Like, don't you find it a little... dehumanizing? Almost like... you're reducing the whole relationship/character to whether they receive or give during sex? Idk it just weirds me out imo
Like, don't you find it a little... dehumanizing? Almost like... you're reducing the whole relationship/character to whether they receive or give during sex? Idk it just weirds me out imo
about make a picrew
28 06,2021
Idk if this has been done but use this to describe your relationship with your father I wanna see something
https://picrew.me/image_maker/399481
https://picrew.me/image_maker/399481
about question
10 07,2021
OKay if this flops it never happened :D
anygAys, I made a mangago census
It's full of a bunch of random questions (you don't have to answer all) and I'm gonna share the results later :P
Here's the link: https://forms.gle/VYeQEztXgMBCZtsdA
anygAys, I made a mangago census
It's full of a bunch of random questions (you don't have to answer all) and I'm gonna share the results later :P
Here's the link: https://forms.gle/VYeQEztXgMBCZtsdA
about looking for a translator
11 07,2021
okay but why does bureau of investigation have 1000+ followers? They said they're fine with shota, r@pe, incest, and etc. plus they're 30, so it's not like they're a teen simping for a teen character, they're a grown-ass adult enjoying mangas that depict literal children being r@ped, and this is coming from a r@pe and p3do victim btw <3
about looking for a translator
about fetishes and kinks
15 05,2021
Most of the people I know are against it and wanted to know other's opinions on it :P
about drawing
21 06,2021
Am I the only one who thinks the period peeling joke was taken too far
about question
12 07,2021
Okay so I can't fit the whole text here, so I'm gonna link a google doc with a list of the results, and I'll add a link to the spreadsheet (I removed all the users so it's anonymous)
google doc:
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1CrAlbLnn3eoAKhPNo6TTf_oq6RzxiaXseSAoqGihgXs/edit?usp=sharing
google sheet:
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1PK8tVvK3JR1php1Vg3N73fbOnyAZidj-3S3L71cab_A/edit?resourcekey#gid=980301575
I hope you guys had fun with this :)
google doc:
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1CrAlbLnn3eoAKhPNo6TTf_oq6RzxiaXseSAoqGihgXs/edit?usp=sharing
google sheet:
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1PK8tVvK3JR1php1Vg3N73fbOnyAZidj-3S3L71cab_A/edit?resourcekey#gid=980301575
I hope you guys had fun with this :)
about write a book
14 05,2021
(Sorry for the clickbait)
I know this isn’t the best place to ask this, but I’ve been planning to make a post about why yaoi is bad and I really need some opinions on it (preferably from gay men) here it is:
Disclaimer: I have nothing wrong with men watching lesbian porn or women watching gay porn, as long as they can realize porn doesn’t equal real life or people and keep it private
There are 3 main problems with yaoi; it’s stereotypical and heteronormative, it romanticizes a lot of bad things, and it’s catered toward women, not gay men. The fact that it’s just porn is not the problem, again, I don’t care about your porn preference.
The stereotypes and heteronormativity
One of the biggest stereotypes I’ve seen in yaoi is the top being masculine and rough and the bottom being feminine and gentle. This usually leads to heteronormativity, which is also rooted in misogyny, where they make a gay relationship seem like a straight relationship, by making one more “womanly” and the other more “manly” by giving them traditional roles of a man and a woman.
The whole point of a gay relationship is that they’re the same gender, so there is no “woman” in an MLM relationship and there is no “man” in a WLW relationship. While there are tons of gay relationships where one is more feminine and the other is masculine, not all of them, if not most, are like that. It also enforces the stereotype that gay men are predatory and “sex fiends” due to the fact that most of the stories are just sex.
The romanticization of rape and pedophilia (TW)
Most relationships in yaoi stem from the top raping the bottom. Not only is this unrealistic because no victim would date their rapist, let alone interact with them, it also makes it seem like rape is okay and it’s something the victim can just “get over.” Pedophilia isn’t as common, but it’s still there, and both of these further perpetuate the "gay men are predators" stereotype.
The target audience
Yaoi is a whole genre about gay men, but it’s catered towards women. If a story or show is about a minority, then that minority should at least be the target audience, if that’s not the case, it’s exploitation. It’s similar to how lesbian porn is catered towards men and not women.
Some other issues:
1. Bi, pan, and etc. erasure
3. Giving characteristics to top and bottom
4. Sexualization of minors
5. Some fans straight up fetishize gay men
6. Reduces gay relationships to sex
7. Makes it seem like you can “turn” someone gay
8. Gay men have said that it’s fetishization
I know this isn’t the best place to ask this, but I’ve been planning to make a post about why yaoi is bad and I really need some opinions on it (preferably from gay men) here it is:
Disclaimer: I have nothing wrong with men watching lesbian porn or women watching gay porn, as long as they can realize porn doesn’t equal real life or people and keep it private
There are 3 main problems with yaoi; it’s stereotypical and heteronormative, it romanticizes a lot of bad things, and it’s catered toward women, not gay men. The fact that it’s just porn is not the problem, again, I don’t care about your porn preference.
The stereotypes and heteronormativity
One of the biggest stereotypes I’ve seen in yaoi is the top being masculine and rough and the bottom being feminine and gentle. This usually leads to heteronormativity, which is also rooted in misogyny, where they make a gay relationship seem like a straight relationship, by making one more “womanly” and the other more “manly” by giving them traditional roles of a man and a woman.
The whole point of a gay relationship is that they’re the same gender, so there is no “woman” in an MLM relationship and there is no “man” in a WLW relationship. While there are tons of gay relationships where one is more feminine and the other is masculine, not all of them, if not most, are like that. It also enforces the stereotype that gay men are predatory and “sex fiends” due to the fact that most of the stories are just sex.
The romanticization of rape and pedophilia (TW)
Most relationships in yaoi stem from the top raping the bottom. Not only is this unrealistic because no victim would date their rapist, let alone interact with them, it also makes it seem like rape is okay and it’s something the victim can just “get over.” Pedophilia isn’t as common, but it’s still there, and both of these further perpetuate the "gay men are predators" stereotype.
The target audience
Yaoi is a whole genre about gay men, but it’s catered towards women. If a story or show is about a minority, then that minority should at least be the target audience, if that’s not the case, it’s exploitation. It’s similar to how lesbian porn is catered towards men and not women.
Some other issues:
1. Bi, pan, and etc. erasure
3. Giving characteristics to top and bottom
4. Sexualization of minors
5. Some fans straight up fetishize gay men
6. Reduces gay relationships to sex
7. Makes it seem like you can “turn” someone gay
8. Gay men have said that it’s fetishization
about question
15 07,2021
Okay genuine question, but do people actually enjoy and get off to hentai? like I'm not talking about smut mangas, I'm talking about animated pornography, do people actually watch it and go "mmm, tentacles
15 06,2021
Why do people act like self-diagnosing is so harmful? like it's understandable if someone was going around and spreading misinfo about an illness and romanticizing it, but most people who self diagnose aren't doing it for attention and aren't making tiktok accounts dedicated to their illness, it's just that the ones who are doing it for attention GET THE MOST ATTENTION, I self-diagnosed with depression, and guess what? I just got officially diagnosed with severe depression, it's not that hard to do as long as you use trustable sources(hospital sites, gov sites, DSM, etc.) but even if you self-diagnose, try your hardest to get an official diagnosis
PS, most people who self-diagnose don't have easy access to health care (including me)
PS, most people who self-diagnose don't have easy access to health care (including me)