This is a bit of a tough question but imma ask it anyways. So many people hate BL because BL is notorious for basically romanticizing rape, sexualizing minors, and exploring a lot of taboo topics (i.e. incest). Of course this make sense because historically BL really came from dj culture which was about just sexual stuff and stuff. But the concern about allowing this sort of flexibility with BL still stands. Is it ok to enjoy seeing minors sexualized in manga and dj? Is it ok to keep supporting relationships that start from rape? Is incest ok in fiction?
People say “it’s just fiction” but many also argue that fiction can bleed into reality. How would you respond?
Say you are ok with shouta and you saw pedophilia in a TV show...would you still be ok with that? Where exactly are the boundaries?
Does liking taboo stuff like incest mean you’re subconsciously ok with it? Do you think these taboo subjects are connected to morals? Is fiction where you can “break” your morals?
For me I have no issue separating reality with fiction. But I see the issue with liking something in fiction and seeing how it translates to reality for some people. So I don’t exactly put “characters” and “humans” in the same sort of category so I don’t have the same boundaries established for characters. Like murder? I condemn murder in real life but murder in fiction? I don’t even flinch an eye. That’s not to say I completely have different standards for characters (like if a character is cheating on someone I wouldn’t like that character) but I still have looser rules (?) for the fictional world. Although frankly I’m just confused if I can like BL despite BL being low key problematic.
Thank you if you read this far. If you can comment your answers and/or thoughts I would like to read them.
People say “it’s just fiction” but many also argue that fiction can bleed into reality. How would you respond?
Say you are ok with shouta and you saw pedophilia in a TV show...would you still be ok with that? Where exactly are the boundaries?
Does liking taboo stuff like incest mean you’re subconsciously ok with it? Do you think these taboo subjects are connected to morals? Is fiction where you can “break” your morals?
For me I have no issue separating reality with fiction. But I see the issue with liking something in fiction and seeing how it translates to reality for some people. So I don’t exactly put “characters” and “humans” in the same sort of category so I don’t have the same boundaries established for characters. Like murder? I condemn murder in real life but murder in fiction? I don’t even flinch an eye. That’s not to say I completely have different standards for characters (like if a character is cheating on someone I wouldn’t like that character) but I still have looser rules (?) for the fictional world. Although frankly I’m just confused if I can like BL despite BL being low key problematic.
Thank you if you read this far. If you can comment your answers and/or thoughts I would like to read them.
about go mad or crazy
Do you feel annoyed when people confess to you after knowing you’re aro ace? I find it annoying because it lowkey makes me feel bad??? Especially when they say “you haven’t had romantic feelings but I can change that” like BRUH IT LITERALLY ISNT A CHOICE-
YALL P L E A S E STOP THIS MADNESS (╬￣皿￣)凸
I DO N O T WANT SOME KISSMANGA MOMENT AND YALL DONT SEEM TO REALIZE THIS IS AN ILLEGAL SITE NWODNWOD KEEP YALL MOUTHS
S. H. U. T.
I DO N O T WANT SOME KISSMANGA MOMENT AND YALL DONT SEEM TO REALIZE THIS IS AN ILLEGAL SITE NWODNWOD KEEP YALL MOUTHS
S. H. U. T.
Send funny meme or the best meme u have that u use in conversations. Ex: I use Hellmo like everyday when trying to be like
about discord server
My friend, for whatever reason, really wants a fudanshi friend. V v strange and specific ik but she always talks about how envious she is of people with fudanshi friends and I wanted to help. So I created a discord.
https://discord.gg/BaxFXdM
We aren’t strange people (but she is tho *cOUGH*). We don’t bite. Please help my friend make a fudanshi friend. Thank you. Sorry for taking up your time. We’re pretty chill and you don’t have to do a lot. Maybe talk and stuff but das it. Just click da link bro plz
P.S. she told me to add this “*Note: if your also a v cute uke style or a smoking hot seme then you are more than welcome ” ik right what a weirdo.
https://discord.gg/BaxFXdM
We aren’t strange people (but she is tho *cOUGH*). We don’t bite. Please help my friend make a fudanshi friend. Thank you. Sorry for taking up your time. We’re pretty chill and you don’t have to do a lot. Maybe talk and stuff but das it. Just click da link bro plz
P.S. she told me to add this “*Note: if your also a v cute uke style or a smoking hot seme then you are more than welcome ” ik right what a weirdo.
Westerners have twisted the meaning behind “fujoshi” along with tons of other words (like yaoi, BL, shounen ai, etc...) and basically created a whole community to bash fujoshis because of their own misconception. It would be amazing if we could help end these misconceptions and learn to appreciate a different culture! Fr tho...it’s LOWKEY nasty and embarrassing to see ppl like that...almost to the point where I think westerners shouldn’t be allowed to enjoy eastern culture...anyways.... check out these helpful resources! And the next time you see someone bashing fujoshis, hit them with the facts :))))
https://rottenboysclub.dreamwidth.org/766.html
https://rottenboysclub.dreamwidth.org/1664.html
https://rottenboysclub.dreamwidth.org/3356.html
The author is gay fudanshi and is known for listing credible sources with his answers! He also has great information regarding terminology, yuri, gei comi, and more!
https://rottenboysclub.dreamwidth.org/766.html
https://rottenboysclub.dreamwidth.org/1664.html
https://rottenboysclub.dreamwidth.org/3356.html
The author is gay fudanshi and is known for listing credible sources with his answers! He also has great information regarding terminology, yuri, gei comi, and more!