shinigamibuyou's answer (15)

This may be a slightly less popular opinion but I will give my 2cents as a queer man. If we are talking yaoi specifically : There is always something fetishistic about smut. Shounen ai? Generally less sex focused, so there is a less of that in my experience. And yeah you can argue that "its written by fujos who get off to gay porn and fetishize gay......   1 reply

If he loves you he is going to make an effort. Trust me. Best you can do is talk to him about it. If he brushes your hurt feelings off like that and doesn't make an effort, he isn't worth your time.   1 reply

Truthfully, I was exposed to yaoi very early. Maybe like 12 or 13. I will try and keep myself short: I feel like ppl under 13 (oh what a hypocrite I am) shouldn´t consume sexual content as a form of pleasure or something. I feel like at that age you shouldn´t even think about sex. As a general rule of thumb I always say that if you can´t handle ......   1 reply

Not giving a shit about society and what other people perceive you as will make you so much happier. In the end nothing matters, so do what you want.   reply

As someone who did highschool longer than most because I kept moving countries and missed large chunks of a school year, I ended up repeating grade 9 twice. So here is the thing. Don´t give a shit about your image. Trust me. It doesn´t matter. Be yourself and you will find friends. Establish a relationship with those friends that will carry on ev......   2 reply

I took the long route of downloading the japanese version with an english patch. Soooo yes. I probably like Clear and Noiz the best overall. Clear is just such a precious little baby. Also DMMD memes and Aobas moaning rap are still as lit as they were years ago lol.   reply

Stop rushing. I used to want to fall in love all the time when I was young. I quickly gave up because in the end life is about so much more than love. Love will come naturally. One day you will find someone and you will just click, you don´t need to be desperate or go out with the single purpose to fall in love. Focus on yourself first.   reply

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This video sums it up perfectly. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jErGG1_YPZE First : Confusion Second : Rejection Third : Mental Breakdown Fourth : Curiosity Fifth : The black dark hole of shounen ai and yaoi   reply

Aquarius here, guess I will end up being an omega. Time to kick all the alphas in the butt, find one that I like and make him mine and proceed to have the most amazing sex fantasy can create.   reply

Marriage is kinda just like a contract that says "Yo you gotta stay with each other now you cant just say lets break up from one day to the other". Its kinda stupid and I don´t feel the need to get married but in certain countries you gotta if you wanna live together. So like, I gotta marry if I wanna live with my bf of like 6 years. I don´t mind......   1 reply

I guess I´m a switch, but if I had to put it into words I would say more like an M with a sprinkle of S. https://www.bdsmtest.org/select-mode For anyone who still hasn´t done it. Its fun   reply

I mean, I personally prefer it if the uke is a bit on the cuter side. But shotacon confused me and isn´t really my thing   1 reply

Everyone is different. When I was younger I would sneer at the mere thought of relationships, kids and marriage, but as I became older I grew more and more fond of the idea of marrying and having a family. Mainly because I found someone I really really like and have been dating for almost 6 years now. Relationships are so much more than just love a......   reply

I mean, gonna be completely real I probably have been reading yaoi since I was like 11 or something. Not saying thats ok since its essentially hentai in some cases. 12 is hella young to be reading stuff that people get off to. Like everyone has their reasons for reading it and recently I have been enjoying Shounen ai more than yaoi, partially becau......   1 reply