Ares's question (8)

I'm gonna crash out so like I didn't say shit for me to get in this position. All I commented was "I don't like oc x canon and y/n it's too corny and mischaracterization gives me goosebumps." on a some post that criticised oc x canon. Almost 10 motherfuckers jumped on me saying why it's good. Sure it's have fun shipping yourself with your favourites and all but don't bring that shit near me. I don't go out actively hating on oc x canon if I stumble across such post I just scroll away and mind my own business. I just don't like those oc x canon ships but I'm fine with ppl making ocs in that AU like it's fun and cute I enjoy it but I stop enjoying it when their oc HAVE to be this important thing where every canon character revolves around her and somehow the depressed and cold looking characters who doesn't give a shit is obsessed with them. Oc x canon interactions are just not it for me but I don't go out preaching about it have fun in your own way. So tell me why these two weirdos who I think probably know and are friends w eachother keep sending me death threats and try doxxing me. I am a private person most of my information are kept private so idk how those two idiots found out which country I live but that's all for now. Idk what they get out of doxxing me I'm no famous person nor do I post anything so even if they dox me no one is coming to beat my ass.

Okay so this is kinda like an update w the guy that confessed me.

He said he wants to have a talk and meet I think- and I'm busy with studies and work and all. The feelings are somewhat mutual. He's a nice guy- like someone I'd date for a long term but the thing is I really don't wanna be in a relationship. He said he'd be fine with waiting after I basically said something along the lines of "the feelings mutual but I'm not up for dating". But the thing is I genuinely can't keep up a conversation with ppl online also I'm preparing to study abroad which means even if we end up dating it'd be a long distance with an unusual time difference. I'm no fan of long distance. So like can y'all review my reply and make it sound like I'm not inconsiderate of his feelings?? (I didn't reply to his reels or texts for 2 days and more... I SWEAR I WAS BUSY W STUDIES AND I HAD A FIGHT W MY MOM.)

Reply: yeah hey- things haven't been smooth sailing on my side. I hope we can converse the things we want on text since I got a busy schedule and I can't meet you face to face. I don't want to lead you on I appreciate the fact that you're honest about your feelings and that you're willing to wait but I really am not interested in dating. I genuinely can't keep up with dating. I really can't keep up with texts let alone dates. I really don't wanna hurt you nor our relationship in the long run. So, if you find a girl you like in the future, you should move on. I don't know when I'll be able to improve myself. So yeahh I really don't hope it doesn't leave a bad taste in our friendship.

Okay, I know I'm gonna get hate for this but I have nothing against people drawing/making an oc in fandoms like Kny/genshin/jjk/bluelocketc. But when they make their oc interact with the canon characters and some how the canon character is in love with them feels so wrong and a bit corny for some reason. Maybe I was born a hater idk man but the mischaracterization feels so wrong. Especially with muichiro from kny I'm not fan of that guy but I'm for a fact that, that kid isn't going to act all sunshine and rainbows when his head is in the cloud half of the time. It feels like an upgraded version of y/n x character but worse.

I think they're both equally bad okay. I saw a girl comment saying misandry isn't as bad as misogyny cause misogyny has existed way longer than misandry. It's like two sides of a coin y'know rather than elevating misandry to be on the same level as misogyny I think we should we eradicating the both. But what's your take on these two?

Applies to hands too..

I thought I was a whore with the questionable shit I do so I checked my rice purity test surprisingly it's 95 (I'm not a minor) but what is y'all's rice purity test score.

If you guys are minors don't talk to strangers online not from this site or any apps. Recently, in my country countless girls have been blackmailed cause a lotta adults are posing as minors to love bomb them and force them to stay in a relationship w them. These strangers asks for explicit pictures and then blackmail the minors into carving their username onto their skin. There's like a whole ass group in telegram and other apps where these adults share info about the minors and proudly show off. Just saying be safe y'all cause this group is based in America and there are people of different countries so it can happen to anyone.

STAY SAFE Y'ALL

I got to know this for like 2 half years. He's a good guy but all his exes are red flags like huge red flags. When we were still friends I got a bf but we broke up after 8 months cause for some reason dating made feel like I lost basic human rights. That guy was insecure asf and I had to text him constantly every day and it lowkey pissed me off cause he'd act all shy and shit but when texting he would suddenly transform into shakespeare. But this guy and me started off as friends he's nice. I do like him but I also don't wanna date him. I can't keep a relationship cause I'm a very avoidant person. I'll talk all day long if we are face 2 face but I don't like texting or calling. Idk what I should do cause we have the same friend circle too and things are gonna be awkward since I haven't replied to his confession.