as an mlm, i can agree to an extent. i do think that other people should have a say in what counts as fetishizing though. if an lgbt woman were to say "i think reading yaoi for the gay sex is fetishizing" and an mlm went "no it's not. im mlm, and only i can say what's fetishizing" (i saw this a few years back on another mangago post, but this is wo......
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