Gay for the Gay God's answer page 1 (106)

My dude, I'm a psychologist and a person with Double Depression (Dysthymic Disorder and Major Depressive Disorder, but at the same time). Here's my take: You don't get to tell people if they're depressed or not. Ever. Depression, like all mental illnesses, will differ from person to person. People with depression aren't depressed all the time. Peo......   5 reply

Ageplay, raceplay, and anything involving any bodily fluid that isn't, like... Semen or blood. Plus, like... Burping, farting, sneezing, or coughing... I mean if you do it and it makes you happy, go off I guess, but to me it's like... Ick. I say this as someone with some pretty wild kinks.   1 reply

Nonbinary, intersex, and hella gay. What does being gay mean if I'm nonbinary? Fuck if I know, but I feel it in my soul.   2 reply

Not-so-hot take: if you bash yuri and act like it's gross, you're homophobic. yes, even if you like yaoi. treat your queer sisters (and queer enby siblings!) with the same fucking respect you treat your queer brothers.   4 reply

Hi! Please see a therapist. Specifically, one who specializes in trauma and who is LGBT+ friendly. I hesitate to say whether or not someone is mentally okay, but this doesn't sound healthy. You sound unhappy and it sounds like it's affecting your life. I can't officially diagnose someone who isn't my patient, so I'm not going to give you a diagnos......   reply

Uh, let's see... "You'd be so pretty if you tried!" said by a classmate when I was in 7th grade. She then offered to give me a makeover. Was real wild. "You look like a sexy librarian." said by a junior when I was a freshman in high school. It was because I was wearing a black turtleneck, apparently? And then the old standby: "Wow, you don't loo......   reply

Hi! I'm a gay man (technically nonbinary, but who's counting?) and I read a LOT of BL. I do enjoy it a lot! However, I also recognize that there are a lot of themes in BL that are harmful. It can be easy to say "but it's fiction", but it's also important to remember that fiction can and will shape the way we interact in the world, even unconsciou......   2 reply

First fictional crush (that I can remember) was Zuko from Avatar The Last Airbender. Current fictional crush is Anduin Wrynn from World of Warcraft.   reply

Cishet people were a mistake   reply

You had me until "so that I can be gay". My trans ass was like "GASP! KIN!" but no you've betrayed me.   reply

Oh, for fuck's sakes... This is why I stay off of twitter. Smh.   reply