Mimi's answer (4)

Definitely try to think of all of the things about Vic you didn't like. If you don't have anything you didn't like about him, that's probably a sign you didn't know him as well as you thought. If you have to make up/ speculate not so great things about him try that too. Every time you feel like you miss him remind yourself of these, remind yourself......   reply

It's hard to go from an amazing BL to one that's sub par and get the same amount of enjoyment from them both. The more you read the more you're able to see what makes one story good and another not so good. I think it's a good thing. You've become more discerning. It's better to engage with art more critically. It's a skill to be able to tell the d......   1 reply

anyone have gl recommends for me? ive read loads of bl, and sl is the mainstream so its everywhere. I like both a lot. for gl i dont know any good manga/manhua/books. Ive seen a lot of very romantic lesbian movies that were super well done that i loved (the handmaiden, painting of a lady on fire as recent examples). as a mostly straight girl i th......   2 reply

I'm 23 and also never really been in a relationship. I had one 'boyfriend' in high school for about 4 weeks, two of which I was out of the country for, we kissed once, it sucked, then broke up. He's now one of my best guy friends and basically the closest I've ever felt to loving someone. Periodically, whenever I'm drunk and lonely/horny, I'll thin......   reply