Basil's answer (6)

I completely agree with you. It is not alright to fetishized gay men (or women for that matter). Also, if anyone would like to add to the discussion related to what I have stated in this post, please let me know! I'd love to hear your opinion. Also, as a forewarning, while I am writing about the history of BL in Japan, please do not turn around an......   1 reply

Might be weird to answer my own question, but if anyone is looking for some good manga besides for me, here's what I recommend (I'm going to try to only put ones that aren't as well known): Horror (not that many, I know, big sad): - Jinrou game (all three of them, horror/psychological) Action: - Yakushoku Distpiari - Gesellschaft Blume - deliver......   reply

Don't worry. I started my first relationship right before I turned 19. I'm not sure what you're like in your day to day like, but if you put yourself out there and actively talk to people, it may come naturally. If you never talk to anyone outside your friend group, it may be a bit more difficult. I was kind of in a similar situation to what I d......   reply

This is coming from a fellow 19 y/o I don't think it's a good idea to see getting a boyfriend as an opportunity to "open yourself up to males" (I'm assuming make more male friends/talk to more guys). I feel like it would be better to start talking with guys first, opening up, then use that as an opportunity to find someone. That's what I did and I ......   reply

make a catfish account and slide into his dms. (be careful with this though, cus if all the posts were uploaded the same day, he might get suspicious). You could also have an online friend (who he doesn't know and doesn't have any friends of friends with) slide into his dms too. If he bites, then you got him. I'd say I could do that for you but......   reply

I wouldn't recommend doing it with a stranger. My friend did when she was drunk and she said she regretted it immensely. On the other hand, I see where you're coming from, and I completely agree. I wouldn't want to have sex with people I know unless I feel absolutely comfortable with them, something that rarely happens. If you have a friend like th......   reply